My girlfriend is a year older than me. We are in highschool, and next year she's going to be going to College. I guess it won't be so bad if she doesn't go to school too far away, but what if she goes to a school far away from where we live? What's the best way to maintain our relationship?
2006-08-16 20:28:12 · 10 answers · asked by bill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It will end. when she starts getting in to the college life and other girls in college and they her she has a boyfriend in high school they will laugh and she will dump you in a heart beat
sorry but that is what is going to happen no matter what she says now. the only way to keep her and it may not work is to marry her before she leaves. that can't work cause your in high school
2006-08-16 20:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation when my bf went away (500 miles away) for school. The way we managed to keep the relationship going was calling each other everday before going to bed, emails, chatting/ IMs, and the we visited each other during holidays and breaks. We even sent each other snail mail love letters...it was nice...
I will admit it was tough...and sometimes it get pretty bad...but stay strong and try to make the most of the time you get together. Also, make sure you talk a lot, it keeps things going and gives a sense of comfort.
Make sure you also discuss, what may or may not happen while she is away...I mean college changes people, sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse...but, be sure to talk about what the possibilities of her going to college, meeting new people may do. By this I mean let's say she has a study group with a boy in her class...and they are just studying...would u get jealous? Would that be a problem for u ? Do you trust her? Does she trust you? What about if she goes dancing with her girlfriends, would you allow her to dance with another guy? What if while she is in college, she decides to drink? Talk to her about all the things that may happen in college and tell her what you are okay with and what you are not okay with. Because if you don't talk things over before hand, and she tells you about an experience she had and let's say you don't approve because you never talked about it...well then it may cause problems in the future. The same thing goes for her too...what if there is a school dance and you wanna go, will she mind if you went with a friend? Will she get upset if you did this? ...Just be honest, talk to each other...and try to make each other happy.
Be away from home is the hardest thing for anyone, and college is pretty tough, not only academically, but socially and so you need to be each other's support system and talk things through, and keep communicating while she is in college. If you need more advice...you can email me.
2006-08-16 20:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call her, write letters to her, visit her, plan out a date, etc. If she's dedicated to you and she loves you very much, your bond between each other will never break. You can try to pick her up at times after college... or even surprise her, you know?
2006-08-16 20:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I drained it, and my suggestion is that long distance does not rather artwork. there is in basic terms psychological and actual issues that would desire to be chuffed. I gave up after 3 months. i'm no longer asserting which you will no longer do long-distance, yet i've got tried it and the outcomes weren't healthy..
2016-09-29 08:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think separation will even enhance ur attraction for ur girl friend & her for u. Please enjoy from separation also and be patient.After some time a way out will come out.
2006-08-16 20:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still together in a year worry about it then, not now.
2006-08-16 20:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till the time comes!
2006-08-16 20:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write, call , email and let her know how you feel
2006-08-16 20:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont break it up
2006-08-16 20:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by RO_dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
five letters v.i.s.i.t her
2006-08-16 20:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by kidaceboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋