my ex mike& i still kind of conversate a little..but its been a couple wks since we actually spent time 2gether..i know its dumb&ur prolly like y u still bein friends with ur ex..but heres the messed up story..this grl i work wit Ashley act like shes my friend..llike shes cool with me..we on a hello wahts up hows things basis..nothing2 deep..just simple.convo..she has a daughter n a bf..we all work 2gether..n everybody know everybody bussiness she know i use2mess with mike&everybody knows she got a guy she mess w/..anyways..2make a longstory short..my ex called my phone 2night out of the blue..something said 2just call him back..so i did..n Ashley answered the phone..so calm n nonchalant lilke it was her phone..wich upseted me..why she answerin my ex phone n why she wit him at 11pm is wat i dont understand..i know she saw my #come up on the phone..&i was playin dumb like she was..she was like this is not my phone..i said i know its Mikes&she say do i want2speak 2him..n i said yea..
2006-08-16 20:24:59 · 9 answers · asked by Calendar_Model 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so then when she gave him the phone he was like whats up..and i said "Yeah" like confused..wat u want? and he was like my sister called you..which i think is a lie because why his sister want 2call me at 11at night? i dont even talk 2his sister and im not even cool with his sister like that..if mike was sitting right by the phone why couldnt he answer it why he let ashley answer it like it was her phone? it just immature to play these games and childish why you answerin his phone is what i dont understand and if i go answer her mans phone i know she will be upset..now what am i suppose 2do about the situation? when i see all these people everyday? dont i look stupid? i shouldnt even have called him..its just dumb we all "adults" but still playing childish games..what was the point of her answering his phone? i know she saw my name pop up on the caller i.d.
2006-08-16 20:28:18 · update #1
but why does it have to be Ashley? why couldnt it be a stranger..a female i didnt kow? why does it have to besomeone i have 2look at everyday?
2006-08-16 20:32:43 · update #2
Welcome to why lets be friends never makes it past the first g/f after you. Move on.
-NmD!
2006-08-16 20:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Question:
Did you bf called you or just text msg you? Maybe Ashley was the one who txt you and challenging you.
My View:
Anyway, you are sensitive now. Clam down and maybe it is not what it is like (hopefully). Maybe Ashley 's husband is hanging out with your ex and she happened to be there? Regarding why the heck Ashley pick up the phone. Really I have no idea.
But Hey, don't act much now. Until you know what is really going on, try to be calm. Once you know Ashley is really challengeing you. THAT'S GOOD! It will be obvious that she is the one in fault. You then HAVE AN EXCUSE to mess with her. No matter how worst you treat Ashley. People like us still think Ashley started the **** anyway. She deserves to be treat like ****.
My analysis:
Anyway, this is messed up. No matter who called you for whatever reason. They are not respecting you. FUXK Them! Even I am mad for you !
OF course at this moment, I know you try to be clam but you are not. Deep down inside you feel things are unfair and why the hack you are in this position. Take a deep breathe, take a hot shower, play this Yahoo question/ answer thing until you sleepy, then go to sleep. If you read my question I posted on here, I am having some issue in relationship too yet I am trying to doing my own things. I am telling myself why I need to care a person who doesn't care my feeling anyway.
GOOD LUCK & TAKE CARE! /pray for ya
2006-08-16 20:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by City hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have an ex i kinda like so much but i completely stayed away from him cos i know if i get too close to him,i might get jeolous.
i dont visit his part of town so as not to run into him,im at peace with myself when i know nothing about him now.
try stay away from mike and pretend what happened d other night with ashley never happened.
2006-08-16 21:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by bisol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha u r like a past of me ... i was also kind of playing dumb but nevertheless u should look forward to new life as u has already said he is your EX so get ova that idiot guy and find your self a guy that will cherish u and not like your EX OK :P and may be u can bless them as this prob when he with her is not your problem u can take a step and say bye bye to history ... be happie my gal ... and u are always loved by ppl who cares 4 u ... so don let Ur trouble get into you ok...
2006-08-16 20:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it blow off. maybe ur ex is telling the truth. or maybe ashley called on purpose, to anger you or make u jealous.
try not to let it get to u... forget about it. and dont keep being "Friends" with this ex of urs... especially when ashley is around
2006-08-16 20:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading your story, no wonders why your BF ditched you. You are messed up.
2006-08-16 20:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sahil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you call him as your ex , now how come you are interested in his move .
2006-08-16 20:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join Scotland yard - good work - dump them both.
2006-08-16 20:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to make you insecure and jelous because thats what she is!
2006-08-16 20:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by katie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋