Why do some guys act all sweet and cuddly with their g/f when they are alone, but as soon as their friends are around they act all tough and macho, they don't act the same towards their g/f.
2006-08-16 20:24:49 · 17 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we don't want our buddies to see that we have a soft romantic side, all about hormones and being really immature... I think it stinks when guys do that been there done it and don't any more cause I want to show you off to the other guys and if anything to say "see what I got, her and I are together" and also want to enjoy being with you anyplace with anybody around
2006-08-17 13:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty simple. These men act rought and tough since they start to grow up in the community. Once they fall in love, the castle of their roughness falls apart to the invasion of a woman. Then, they feel uneasy to admit that they're not the way they acted for all these years. That's why - double face!
2006-08-16 21:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by Atique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To save face, another word for it is pride. They don't want their tough or macho gang members to is the SOFT side of their personality... I hope this helps... Good Luck..
2006-08-16 20:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just the way we are. Every man has to make it look like he runs his reltaionship. We all know that when it is just "me and you" she runs it. When we have our boys around let us be the man. When you get home or away from his boys then you can kick his *** and tell him how stupid he is, but to be "wife" material, you have to let him do this, I promise he will love you a lot more if you suck it up and play along.
2006-08-16 20:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two sides of a coin. by that i mean you boy friend is opening up to you by showing you a sides of his personality that he doesn't feel comfortable showing in front of his friends. It not being macho it's emotional self defense
2006-08-16 20:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by randy_e_morrell_jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word: Ego. Some guys are always concerned with their image and need that attention to boost it...
2006-08-16 20:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by OnlyStL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to show that they are the dominant partner in the relationship.
2006-08-16 20:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by Sahil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I treat my Mona Lisa with sweetness and tenderness all the time.
2006-08-16 23:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by ChevalierCourageux 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol the time old question.
guys don't want thier buddies to think they r pu**y whipped, or they will never hear the end of it.
2006-08-16 20:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word : Pride.
2006-08-16 20:29:06 · answer #10 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋