i am in love with her yes i know she is younger than me. shall i say my feelings towards her? will this society acept this ... please answer me and guide me and also pray for me
2006-08-16 20:23:25 · 23 answers · asked by mohsin a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude i have seen 18 yr olds go to jail for messing with a 14 yr old, and you have to register as a sex offender, that stays with you forever. If this is love wait, if its true it'll still be there when shes 18. if its not there it was never meant to be. If you pursue her all it takes is her mom getting mad once, and no matter what your girl says you are gone.
2006-08-16 20:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her like a bad habit sorry to be a downer but find someone that you can share things with at this age once she turns 18 I don't see a problem with it at all. What really sucks is you can 50 and married to a 30 year old and people are OK with it but if you 18 and in love with a 14 year old your a sick pervert. You two are also going to do alot of changing so just wait, you have alot of life ahead of you and so does she. Don't try and move so quickly. And she has way more changing to do then you, give it some time. Slow down your only 18 im not even thinking of marriage and im 21 calm down go out party get in a little trouble throughout the next 4 years and then really think about a life changing decision!
2006-08-16 20:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's 14 your gonna have to wait a couple of years. Is she in love with you? At 14 I wasn't looking for a husband, I was looking for a boyfriend. Give her some time, she's just a kid still and in a couple of years you'll be the best of friends and you'll know weather she loves you back because at 14 there is no way she is in love with you. Sorry but time tells all.
At 14 I don't think she wants to be a wife and still go to school. It takes a lot to be a good loving wife. It's not bad it's just that you found her early. 4 year difference is not that big of a deal but you are actually still both young.Good luck and God Bless
2006-08-16 20:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u need 2 calm down. don't ask her 2 marry u. u need 2 wait 4 her 2 b of age. besides there needs 2 b time for ur relationship 2 grow, if u r still together in 2-3 years then u can ask her, but she's way 2 young and so r u.
2006-08-16 20:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by hellosexymoto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap dude! do you ever want to have any fun in your life?Gettin married is the last thing you should want to do at 18, that is the age at which you should move out of the parent's basement and go find some strange in other cities and countries.
Not to mention that wicked age difference. You'd actually be cheating her out of a lot of life
2006-08-16 21:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Wyoming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK hi i miko ... if u r truly in love with her u should wait till she is mature enough to be your wife... there is a long way ahead for u ... and u might fall in love wit some one that is around the same age as u and don u think it might be better as u 2 will understand more of each other??
2006-08-16 20:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you, an idiot??
You shouldn't get married at 18. And you DON'T marry a 14 year old!
Wait until you're in your 30's to even consider getting married, otherwise divorce is a virtual lock.
2006-08-16 20:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but this is a really bad idea.
She is 14. She has lots of time to grow still and even if you did get married who says she wont grow weary of you.
Its not what you would want to hear but did you know who you wanted to marry when you were 14?
She needs time to grow. Even 18 it a little young to get married.
2006-08-16 20:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Try put yourself in her shoes and think if her family will actually accept you to marry her at this young age. And what about you? Your parents will approve? When you're young and you think you're in love... you'll do crazy things. Maybe in the end, you'll regret proposing to her... problems arise, either she or you will break up the relationship. In the end, you accomplished nothing.
2006-08-16 20:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you something when i was 14..i fell in love and yes still in love today with him..he was 17 fixing to be 18...he was a complete gentlemen..and now 5 yrs later..we are still in love and want to spend the rest of our days together...i would wait awhile..good luck...
2006-08-16 20:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋