A 20 year old girl from myspace offered to hang out with me to talk after my gf dumped me. She just got dumped by her bf? I'm 28 and she's never seen a pic of me, and she wants to hang out? What are her intentions?
2006-08-16 19:49:48 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't really know her at all I've only exchanged a couple messages.
2006-08-16 19:56:08 · update #1
I don't want to date her at all, I'm not up for that, anyway I prefer a woman closer to my age. I just think its odd she'd be so willing to meet me off the bat. I've met plenty of people from online so I know the risks.
2006-08-16 20:15:18 · update #2
maybe she just wants some one to talk to that is in the same boat as her. She probably feels lonely and very open right now. Who knows what exactly may be going through her head.
2006-08-16 19:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by fourangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not certain of her intentions because you never know who you will meet online. We can not safely say that all she wants to do is talk but we can assume this because you two are in the same predicament. You sound like you are going on a "blind date" and is nervous of your first meeting because you did mention that she's never seen you before. If this is not your motive to possibly date her, you wouldn't care how you look to her. A word of advice, don't be so eager to date her at this point. It's too early. If those are not your intentions, please forgive me. I would also advise that you two exchange phone calls first to get a feel of the other person. People are different when you talk to them than when you are chatting in cyberspace. If you do meet each other, choose a setting that is public and neutral (meaning not in your home or hers). I knew someone who met someone online and they hung out at his house. It was fatal attraction and she began to stalk him and he couldn't get rid of her. Just for your safety, just use precaution. Get to know her first and then take it from there. Remember that women are talkers. We like to talk about our problems, dreams, etc....she may just want to talk to you in person and nothing more.
2006-08-17 03:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely experimental or otherwise known as REBOUND! Nothing solid or significant can come from such a quick turn around. Also, think about this: If she can hook up with someone else just after she broke up then how meaningful was this other guy to her to begin with? She'll likely do the same to YOU.
2006-08-17 03:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by CaliforniaT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could really be a he. Why would someone who just broke up in a relationship go out of their way to meet someone in person they never seen or known? For a woman thats too much physical risk. Women's biggest fear is getting assaulted or killed; thanks to the Lifetime channel.
If its really a she, then she's pretty crazy.
Either way, stay away.
2006-08-17 03:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by success_2_be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is looking for some one to get over her bf, and just have fun if it happens it happens!!! you know what i mean right??
2006-08-17 02:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by lety85m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you've known her I guess
2006-08-17 02:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by litha_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes on the rebound
2006-08-17 02:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE JUST NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TOO AND YOU ARE HER CHOICE BECAUSE YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A BREAK UP TOO.
2006-08-17 02:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she used to be a man. run away.
2006-08-17 02:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex sex sex and more sex
2006-08-17 02:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by kidaceboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋