I met this guy about 2 months ago, he seems nice and I really like him. The thing is that we live in different countries, and I have the opportunity to go to his and met him in person. Obviously I would stay at his place, so what should I do? btw I'm 22 he's 25
2006-08-16 19:34:17 · 16 answers · asked by litha_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I plan to go during November, and for those who have suggested to take a friend.. it's impossible, cause I'm getting there because it's a stopover on my way home
2006-08-16 19:52:27 · update #1
NO. Do not travel to him. If you do ever meet make sure it's in a public place, and make sure you're not alone. Always have a friend...for all you know he could be a freak...don't want something bad happening.
2006-08-16 19:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not, don't go. Online, a person can be anyone they want to be. Have you a web cam and does he? Never met him in person? Do not stay at his place. Do not go alone. Meet him in a public place. Be wary.
What country does he live in? Make sure it is one where women aren't treated as dirt.
Please be careful. Another country is a long way from your family, friends and safety.
2006-08-17 03:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by MoonWoman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pyromaniac is right. for all you know the guy could be a serial killer in another country and decides he want to try his method on someone from a different country. lol...well i could be exaggerating but...well...you never know. at least wait longer. 2 months is pretty short time to be going off to a foreign country to meet someone you really don't know. try waiting til like a year of knowing him and definitely take others with you...if you decide to go. take at least 2 friends along and get a hotel...dont stay in his home. visit him in his home but sleep at a hotel. the guy might have cameras all over the place. just be careful.
2006-08-17 02:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Leicha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honestly follow your got feeling. I think yes meet him but NO don't stay at his place. It might be dangerous and bring someone with you on the trip not necessarily to the first meeting but make sure you bring a friend or family member to your trip so like that they know where you are at all the time. And yes go meet him I did and we have an awesome relationship he is the love of my life. Good luck to you : )
2006-08-17 02:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts?! you want to go and meet a strange guy,in a strange country and stay with him at his place!He may seem nice but you dont really know him,he could be some crazy sex fiend,if you have any common sense you wont do this.
2006-08-17 02:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree completely with the other answerer. Do not meet him, but if you insist do not do so alone and keep to public places.
2006-08-17 02:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you should judge a person by the way he makes you feel on line.
2006-08-17 02:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by maggotier 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont meet in private meet in public
2006-08-17 02:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by i am alive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-17 02:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE that is how way too many people die....you may think you know him, but you really NEVER know
2006-08-17 02:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋