Damn I wanna have sex so bad. Btw lets say a christian has pre-marital sex, what negative effects now become apart of that person's life? (not talking about pregnancy or STDs)
2006-08-16 19:32:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Masturbating is getting boring. I want the real thing
2006-08-16 19:50:15 · update #1
pregnancy and STDs are both BIG problems. but Im talking about the people that have sex and come out of that situation with no kid or diseases.
2006-08-16 20:01:29 · update #2
well first off you are fricking worried about her getting pregnant or you getting aids and it ruining your life. and you feel this guilt like no other. You feel like the scum of the earth yes this is from experience and I wish that it never happened but im forgiven now and am refraining from it till im marrie
2006-08-16 19:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by J.S. in the US 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a christian has sex before marriage they have to do an extra lap everytime they run the track. I ain't kidding, we know its wrong so we have to make up for it. Jesus says faith without works is a dead faith and he is the hero. Now overcoming lust is easy when your sixty...before then its hard, but not impossible. Go running, play basketball, read books that don't dwell on sexual matters. Do not watch television, as a matter fact, there are so many subliminal messages being sent to your mind from the television that its no wonder you believe sex is important. Stay away from the boob tube, why do you think television has such a nickname? So, pregnancy doesn't scare you? I wanted to live some life before I was gonna get saddled with a problem for 18 years plus. Get a dog, and pay attention to it, hey life is long, enjoy it.
2006-08-16 19:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is to get involved in other activities that you really enjoy doing whether it be playing music, sports, reading, or hanging out with family or friends. I don't think that obsessing over sex is going to have any positive influence in life. Otherwise, just get married and be a stand-up dude about it (no pun intended). It's not just fun and games but there's a lot to think about that will impact your life other than health issues. It's very much like a strong addiction and it is best not to fool oneself by thinking there are no consequences. Take a good long look at all the factors involved using the head that is on the shoulders, not the other one. Find older people to discuss the pros and cons, those persons who will be straightforward with you and have your best interest in mind and who will talk about it in a calm and intelligent manner.
I recently went to a friend's house; he has been married for about 20 years now. We were having a friendly yet frank chat about married life. The comment from his wife certainly surprised me due to its succinct truth: She told her husband, "You got to pay to play." So this is really one way to look at this whole issue. Life has so many opportunities and enjoyments and sex is not the last word in happiness. Of course, when you're a young man, one tends to obsess. It is really best not to obsess and try to pursue other avenues of interest. Convince yourself that if you need to, find a woman and make a good Christian family, otherwise, continue to live life and pursue other of so many interests and goals.
2006-08-16 20:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by James A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man, and when you are tempted, He will provide a way out so that you may stand up under it.
You may not be able to overcome lust, but you can avoid the situations that will make it easier to succumb to it. There is always a way out, but you may have to actually accept the way out.
Negative effects: (not that pregnancy and STD's are small ones)emotional pain, sometimes it hits years later when your relationships and priorities are different
2006-08-16 19:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by happymom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel what you feel my brother. I don't understand what btw is but i think i totally understand what you are saying. Is it a steady girlfriend you want to have sex with or is it just someone you met or is it just through a personals ad or maybe its just in the thought process. There are different answers for different scenarios I believe, but anyway the core root of the lust thing is totally normal unless you have been causing the lust to flare up by exposing yourself to pornography or something like that, im in no way saying that you did. We were all created to feel feelings of lust for the opposite sex and it is a challenge to do the right thing with that lust.
First most definately you must take your case to the great physician, thats what I believe. We have this great power at our finger tips, or in our soul and its up to us to tap into that power, and ask God to deliver the goods, his healing power !
2006-08-16 19:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Catt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is the hardest to overcome for men especially.I can tell you this- with sex there is feelings that happen inside you and you do feel changed forever, because you have.The oneness that happens is what God made it for.If you think about it.In your relationship with a girl, the only true thing that isn't like your relationships with others is that you share that one intimate thing.I remember feeling like a piece of myself was actually taken away when I had premarital sex.It was a very lonely feeling.and as a guy, you should encourage girls to have more respect for themselves and that's not the only way to show love.
2006-08-16 19:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by kelliekareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look don't worry about religion their there to help guide you not judge you. you are human sex is a human want .
if you have sex you will only want more. it comes down to self respect and the respect of others. if at all possible wait for true love. if some one is welling to have sex with you and not know you well then your in trouble they don't love you just love sex.
you will know when its time,
2006-08-16 19:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by thewiseman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you're youthful. nicely, our bodies do have urges, enormously in our youthful days. it is not a foul component; have been it no longer for this, we would not at all reproduce. So don't be too annoying on your self. yet do take to praying to St. Michael whilst those urges arise. and then say the Memorare.
2016-12-11 10:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by mundell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbate frequently.
Other than pregnancy or STD, the only harm is bruised egos.
2006-08-16 19:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seered consiense is the result of sex out of marrage ive had a big problem with lust to and iam a christian i confessed to a group of people in church we peayed and that helped me alot it was a big problem but i would chase the guy and not go through with it thank GOD i new it was lust and sinfull but it made me feel so bad about myself no nice man wants a girl that chases men in lust iam waiting for the guy that GOD has for me to be my husband and i no longer lust after men its all because of GOD
2006-08-16 19:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by polkahaunis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋