Well, recently, within the last month or two, when Josh(my fiance) and I are having sex it hurts for a little bit and he has to be really careful at first, then it stops hurting after like 2 min. I was going to go in and see my doc, but I am REALLY broke and the Ins. wouldnt pay for it because its to early for an anual checkup. So I just let it go, well last night after, I went to the bathroom(cuz I dont want another uti! lol) and I noticed blood, but I know it was not from going pee, because I double checked and it WAS coming from my vaginal canal... I have looked and looked for stuff to explain it, and you are my last resort. Does anyone know what is going on with me? Im scared and dont know how to tell Josh that something is wrong~ I know he would be worried and caring, but I really am just not comfortable talking about stuff like this. Help plz?!! And I don't think I am pregnant... there is just no category for this! lol
2006-08-16 19:32:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You are probably doing it too rough.tell him to slow down or don't get in at all.
2006-08-16 19:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by **BLu Tinkerbell** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I know you say it's not from pee, but narrow it down. Use a tampon and the next time you go to the bathroom if there's no blood then you're right it's prolly not a kidney or uterine infection. If with the tampon blood is still coming well then you have a UTI or Kidney Infection and you HAVE to go to the Dr. to get antibiotics and probably pain pills. If you're bleeding Josh is being a bit too rough and you need to rein him in. At this point tell him, if he cares a hoot for you he'll slow down or abstain for a few days. I would recommend taking a week off vaginal entry so that you can really get all of your thoughts and his responses together. Good Luck
2006-08-16 19:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sidoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be happy to answer this question for you....It happens to me too!! Usually it is because the sex is a little "rough." Also do you get fingered? That can cause blood. I asked my doctor about it, and here is her answer to me. First off, if you are bleeding a small amount, it may seem like more if you have *** mixed with it, but if you wake up the next day, or if later that day you are not bleeding anymore than you are fine. She says that sometimes, pending on the size of your uterus...mine is small, then it can easily be bothered by the big intruder. :) However, I recommend and so does she to use a lubricant, or have him start out with fingers to get you going....slowly though, or you will bleed with that too. As long as the bleeding does not last for more than 2 days you are going to be fine, and it is normal.
2006-08-19 17:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by lambdapicchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be sure you are ready for him to enter you. If you are dry down there, then it will hurt and rub and cause friction. If you are not going to have foreplay and be ready for sex, then I suggest you buy some KY jelly. That will lube you up and it should be a little more comfortable.
Also, just be sure your period isn't due, you may have come on early.
2006-08-16 20:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be from just having sex. It also depends on if you were a virgin or not. you could have just broken your hymen or "popped your cherry" unless there is a lot of blood and it doesn't stop bleeding after sex, i wouldn't be too worried about it.
2006-08-16 19:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by mnewdiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it was too hard of sex....ive never bleed after sex, just fingering or toys, but you should see a dr. if it dont stop. and if you cant talk to him, then you shouldnt be having sex w him. be open and honest and that will bring you two closer. good luck.
2006-08-16 19:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by mazzygirl83 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him slow down
use lube
what kind of pain? a burning pain probably means you have a yeast infection...you can go to a doc or get an over-the-counter treatment.
2006-08-16 19:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by alannabear34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you just lose your virginity to him? it's common if you two are just starting to sleep together...but yeah or he's doing it too rough and poking at other things and tearing it like anal sex which can cause bleeding
2006-08-16 19:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by kawika712 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should see your doctor
2006-08-16 19:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by izzydwight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for sharing this with the world...
2006-08-16 19:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋