2006-08-16 19:20:57 · 17 answers · asked by pinkey.s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Caste problem is not a problem ,this is our thinking but society does not think like this. It is very practical.Ask your parents about intercaste marriages, record their conclusions see whether they are in favour of intercaste marriages or not.If yes tell them about your boyfriend,and how much you love him.If no than too tell about your boyfriend and try to consolodate them, tell them your boyfriend's qualities his parents his family background,then also they say no ask sorry to your boyfriend and tell him about your parent's attitude about intercaste marriages.Afterall your parent's are your everything what they say you have to obey it.They will surely take you to the right way.
2006-08-18 03:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by spanky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Caste is a problem.
But one thing I want to make it clear.
Either one of you or both of you should be economically independent and majors - Boy should be 21 and the girl should be 18 (as per the present Indian Law).
Both should be ready to face the society which includes your parents.
If both of you are capable of leading independent life, then you need not worry.
You should never go back to your parents, because now your blood is hot and brain will not work and you have to face many consequences. Then they will not support you. After some time both of you feel the absence of parents and elders in your home.
Think and act. Caste is not a problem, but both of you need courage to face problems after marriage. Government will not object. Rule is different and real life is different.
2006-08-20 06:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt remember what faith or caste that the different get at the same time is. Luv don't have any limitations and its colourless, odourless and blind. Pursue the luv that u desire and stay for your self. Your dad and mom might want to or gained't merchandise yet do not ignore that the end effect of happiness lies in u, so u ought to verify. If u are agency , there is no longer something a lot for every person to merchandise except u are looking on your dad and mom for his or her wealth and the different issues.
2016-11-25 22:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pl stop at whatever stage u r...stop meeting each other.. control your mind.. concentrate on other things which u like... u might face not just noooo..... some serious problems may come up if u don't listen to your parents... it is all infatuation... insist upon your partner and make him understand. he/she might become adamant.. but u have to convince him... u have ventured upon a journey full of risks... u must have been reading in news papers all such incidents .. your friends might insist on your going ahead/ don't worry/ nothing will be happen... these are inexperienced young esters.. u come out of your immature age
2006-08-16 19:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by pali@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes in INDIA its a problem u can run away with tat guy
but do u trust him luv and trust are imp 4 life
2006-08-16 19:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by umesh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even if you don't say that you have a boy friend or not one day your parentswill come know about that. so it isbetter that you say everythink to your parents. ifyour parents really love you they really agreefor your marriage. but it will take sometime for which you have to convince your parents.
2006-08-16 19:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by saranya S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know u came from india...if u think that person is the perfect one....why are u scared of your parents?try convincing them first and don make decisions without considering the consequences...
2006-08-16 19:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they say know then try to convince them .then tooo if they say no then THINK alot as parents can not be replaced.n u wil be all alone if anything goes wrong.
2006-08-16 20:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by silentlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ur parents say obey as a last word you will be happy ever after :) GOOD LUCK
2006-08-16 19:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no yaar its just a matter of convincing ur parents with ur full effort
2006-08-17 02:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by Supriya K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋