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Well besides being in a relationship and cheating on your girl/boyfriend with another person. Would their be any other forms of cheating that I don't know about? The reason i ask because i heard on the radio some women talking about "emotional" cheating cuz there man was thinking about someone else while having sex with them.

2006-08-16 18:47:23 · 10 answers · asked by Biggz 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Emotional cheating is more than having sexual fantasies about someone while engaged in sex. It is spending time, sharing thoughts, dreams, ideas and goals with another person on a consistent basis while you deny this type of intimacy with your g/f. Most women find this more damaging than sexual infidelity since, besides enjoying it, sex may incorrectly be seen by most women as a means to an end of achieving that type of intimacy with their man.

2006-08-16 18:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 0 0

Yes,there are other forms such as lusting in your heart of another.If you do that it is the same as cheating on your mate already in your mind.I truly feel that when another mate also likes to flirt for attention is another form,that person should never desire such attention if they are in love with their mate.The way a person talks to another with words of leading or teasing,is another way.Your right on the part of thinking about someone else while with your mate too,this is definitely wrong! I hope you are just curious,i would hate to hear that this could be your issue with a mate.Have a nice evening and Best wishes!

2006-08-17 02:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0 0

Any time you knowingly follow through on an action which you know may be questionable, then through deceit of your own faith, you have cheated. It's often likely the other person would never be aware, but the cheating yourself of your own beliefs will often rot the bottom out of that relationship.
Men claim they are more visual, there fore they feel it is ok to view another woman naked or compromising herself, calling it a "turn on" of their affections for the woman they are really with. That IS cheating! You cheat yourself from allowing your own natural course and rob her of ever feeling safe with you emotionally.
Some couples claim to enjoy "cheating" together, finding it hightens their relationship. I have yet to see one of those couples celebrate a lenghty or healthy relationship.
When we find the need to start undermining in our own minds those things we know we should not be doing we start the cycle of self abuse, which if left to grow, may turn to victimizing. If you find yourself falling short on being able to handle these feelings or thoughts please seek out someone who can help you learn to redirect yourself before you get to the point you feel you can't stop yourself or have a healthy relationship.
The fact your question indicates a problem, but also much hope for resolve simply because you are reaching out for understanding. Everyone has dirty, nasty thoughts and habits, how we handle them is reflected by those we hang around.
Believe in your what your heart of hearts is telling you, it does not lie.

2006-08-17 02:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by linnitz65 1 · 0 0

Yeah, like women don't think of someone else while having sex.
They always try to turn the tables, the only reason a man gets in trouble is when he opens his mouth.

The words, "Just keep your mouth shut", is my best advise.

2006-08-17 01:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well for me that's more "gentle" cheating as it is in their thoughts. worst if the man cover his wife face with the magazine with angelina jolie in the cover while having sex with her.. that is cheating too.

2006-08-17 01:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by rendel_chris 1 · 0 0

You need to give your whole self to the one you love, or yes your cheating, them and yourself...cuz in a true relationship you become one with your lover...so dont cheat yourself out of that one ness...

2006-08-17 01:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by wizzard 4 · 1 0

Maybe a kiss on the cheek or Maybe Flirting??? I think Flirting would be one

2006-08-17 01:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Typical liberal female blather. Cheating is the physical act of not being faithful.

2006-08-17 01:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Ooooh..........Thats cold as sh*t!!!!!!! Yeah, I would pretty much call that CHEATING too.........Have U done that??

2006-08-17 01:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by PUTT 3 · 0 0

I would say in your thoughts !

2006-08-17 01:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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