it feels great but after like 45 minutes it should have happened shouldnt it? my little toy does the trick for me in minutes - whats wrong with me?
2006-08-16 18:45:20 · 12 answers · asked by lilallyson05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
somthing like 85% of girls dont orgasm during sex,,,
2006-08-16 18:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you do with your toy. Are you using constant pressure? Are you liking the rubbing sensation? With your partner, are you trying for vaginal over clitoral? I would suggest experimenting more. If something doesn't work, try it another way. I had a lot of problems at the beginning for me and then when I couldn't orgasm I would stress and couldn't relax enough to orgasm even if it felt good. Be honest and fun with your partner and anytime something feels good, keep at it!
2006-08-17 01:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by bamjam630 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you! Sometimes it can just be difficult. If you are not completely comfortable with your partner, that can make you tense and then it's hard to climax. Maybe if you help by using your hand that would make you orgasm sooner. Or show your partner exactly where to touch so it feels the best for you. Just take your time and relax and it will happen.
2006-08-17 01:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stimulate your clitoris during sex, that usually does the trick for me if things are going too slowly. It could also be that you are feeling too inhibited to relax enough to orgasm during sex. Being with someone else can make you nervous, I know! If you think this is the case try masturbating in front of him until you are feeling comfortable enough to climax. That can also be really hot and fun! Eventually you will probably start to feel comfortable enough to climax during sex.
2006-08-17 01:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by rachelinjapan24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to never have orgasims until I used a toy. Never from a man till I met my fiance. Just relax and don't worry how long it takes. It usually still happens faster from a toy, but from a man much more intense. Also, he has to know what he is doing.
2006-08-17 01:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you, I think that is quite normal... I have heard of lots of women that can not have an orgasm during sex... your little friend can just hit that right spot, plus if it is you using it, you know where it needs to go to feel good
2006-08-17 01:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to tell your guy to do what your toy does. Men are not mind readers, tell him to do what feels good to you and you will have an orgasm at no time.
2006-08-17 01:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally your more relaxed with your "little toy", until you feel that comfy with your partner than stay satisfied with your "little toy"
2006-08-17 01:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by Michael P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh I am thinking that you are not the problem if you toy does it in minutes it may be your partner
2006-08-17 01:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by brandi.smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much hard, depends on the intensity of love making & strokes u get & speed
2006-08-17 03:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by i am alive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋