If the girl likes a guy and the girl is (as my ole pappy used to say, "If she's the cat's meow! She would!") right for the guy, she would be obligated to say Yes! and mean it. After all, sex is the nucleus of all love for one another.
2006-08-16 18:33:34 · 22 answers · asked by ZORRO 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not talking about love, that comes later, for marriage. Right now, its all for fun, fun, fun, (till her daddy takes her T-Bird away).
2006-08-16 18:43:45 · update #1
Girls might; women won't.
2006-08-16 18:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not agree. I actually I do not think that is true at all. A "real girl" is someone who listens to her heart, head and sticks to her religious teachings and morals. Oh and in order to be a real girl you need a female reproductive system. Plus even if a girl likes a guy is isn't "obligated" to do or say anything she does or doesn't want to. Sex is much more complex than two people liking eachother on a first date or second date. So if you think a "real girl" is a easy person that would have sex on a first date, think again.
2006-08-16 18:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by sasa_gamer_one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that sex is the nucleus of all LOVE for one another. What love? You're on your first or second date. I think you want to be with women who is a cheap thrill and who's easy. Hate to tell you this but not all women want to hit the sack with you from the get-go. If you expect this, you are mistaken.....but I'm sure you'll meet some who don't mind taking the plunge with you from the start. It just tells me you want to date people who don't have old fashion values. Wear a condom, you'll need it.
2006-08-16 18:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's going to give it up, he says "wham bam thank you Mame!" Doesn't make any difference if it's the first or second date, he still got it without having to commit to anything.
By the way, you are talking about just having sex. . . making love is the nucleus. Don't confuse the two and both of you protect yourself from having unwanted children!
2006-08-16 18:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by the_md_victor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the problem with that is that girls who have sex on the first date are viewed as sluts. Don't you see? It's happened to us time and time again that we have sex on the first date and then the guy won't go out with us again because we were too easy. You have to watch it, if you really like a guy you can't sleep with him on the first date because it could screw up everything. I hate this double standard, but it is a fact of life.
2006-08-16 18:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by rachelinjapan24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, definitely not. The first date is waaayyy too early. "Making love" insinuates that there is a relationship there. It takes TIME to learn to love and trust someone enough to truly make love to them. It will be so much better if she WAITS awhile! Yes, sex is an important part of love, but there is no LOVE after a first date, only LUST and/ or INFATUATION.
2006-08-16 18:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. Yes, sex is the nucleus of all love, but do you really know that you love someone after one or two dates?
2006-08-16 18:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by mike i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean sex is the nucleus of all love? Who have you been talking to? Larry Flint?
2006-08-16 18:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by jeezum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep believing that my friend and eventually the only ones you will get are the ones you pay for. Why should any girl accommodate someone who has a peanut head and is obviously is a jerk.
2006-08-16 18:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by Robere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a "real GIRL" would...because they think it's necessary to have sex to get to a man's heart...a "real WOMAN" on the other hand would NOT have sex that soon...because they'd know better. They have more respect for themselves, and therefore would make anyone who wanted them work for it.
2006-08-16 18:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she could still hold it back even she is a real girl who loves you.
of course she could have sex but depends
she might want to take it slow or make sure you two have
a relationship or many other reasons are considerable
2006-08-16 18:38:09 · answer #11 · answered by happy-angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋