she's my ex girlfriend.
we broke up 5 years ago.
i met her 3 days ago and the old feelings(hate it) start to make me wanna be with her again. She feels the same way too. The problem is she's a wife to someone she met after we broke up. she told me that she just can't forget about me and i feel the same way too. she's been married for two years but she is not happy being with her husband( that's my advantage).
i know what i should do but i need some advice. To all brothers and sisters ,what should i do?
p/s: she have no kids yet.
2006-08-16 17:42:45 · 20 answers · asked by nikcotine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The husband was a rebound to help her forget about you. So her feelings may never have been with him, but she had the intention to move on, it just wasn't successful because she didn't move on in her emotions. We are not free until our emotions are cleared.
You live once in this lifetime as the person that you are. Be happy. If a marraige is not making her happy... she should.move on. I did.
2006-08-16 17:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by cami 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
After a five year absence are you sure its the feelings for her that have come back or are you just craving that (perhaps??) simpler, time of your life? Either way, the problems you had then could turn up again and keep in mind, if she's willing to cheat on her husband with you, she'll be willing to cheat on you with someone else. (Good Luck!) :)
2006-08-17 00:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shoould remember why you two broke up to begin with and don't forget it... Did you two get along? Were you both happy? Are you two just wanting something you can't have ... and then when you two get what you think you want will you want something else? Just remember that they married for a reason and out of love...and I believe you should let her go... Let her decide what she really wants without the intrusion of you to distract her. If she really wants to be with you she will find you
2006-08-17 00:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by susan_manley2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad there are no kids. Really, it's not up to you. It's up to her if you say she feels the same way. Just tell her as long as your sure of your feelings. You did break up before. Make sure this is not a case of wanting something just because you can't or aren't supposed to have it.
Good luck.
2006-08-17 00:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she's not happy she would need t get a divorce...but if that doesnt happen i guess se isn't as unhappy as she seems. feelings can come back...but you would have to make sure that if yall got back together that whatever broke yall up in the first place never resurfaces...u both have to think if getting back together will be beneficial to you both.
2006-08-17 00:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by tcb_2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my view...you are broke with her because of not mature but now you repeat the same reason when you be together...em.. no medicine can ease you for me..you are wrong that's all and i belief we are human and everything happen is all be able to done and control by us..ourselves...our life is short but we have future just don't do wrong thing which always happen when we lie ourselves..to break away our own future which is wanted for human life purpose..
2006-08-17 01:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Youiop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i opine dat get a wife for urself n den imajine some old flame of her tryng to get intimate again behind u.
it is better nt to wory about whrther she's happy wid her hubby or nt bcoz it is entirely their personal matter n it's none of ur busuness.
dnt kill ur peace in life n other's too.
2006-08-17 00:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by spandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if she's really unhappy she should leave the guy. Then when she's free she can be with you. Isn' t it better that way? At least you guys won't be sneaking around and you'll also be completely committed to one another, guilt free.
2006-08-17 00:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Bassilisk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she honestly isnt happy in her marriage tell her when the divorce is final for her to call you and you can hook up but dont do anything until then you really dont know her full story and how true it may or may not be and you dont want trouble with the hubby
2006-08-17 00:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to tell you dz.... 1st of all I understand you but pls. let your head rule over you heart & your feelings...you have to accept that she does'nt belongs to you anymore for the fact that she commit herself to somebody other than you..both of you are expecting to be reunited again that's y you feel that way.. release her completely and ask GOD to help you deliver from this situation...now can i ask you also? IS SHE REALLY WORTH KEEPING?Remember she has dropped you once, so learn from it...GODBLESS.. (dangbong_82@yahoo.com at your service)
2006-08-17 00:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋