wrong? Should I let him watch?
I find that I'm the only one that knows how to please me. So whenever I get a chance, I take care of me....
2006-08-16 17:28:34 · 28 answers · asked by Always Searching 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know your age or your relationship status.
If this is a ltr , yes, let him watch.. also let him help.. perhaps teach him how to do oral and watch your finger next to his tongue,.. the can visualize the location, the speed, the pressure and how you work yourself up.. it will be very arousing for him as well, and it might teach him how to please you..
but dont make him feel like he is not able to please you enough and that you have to masturbate to feel fulfilled, that will really destroy things, even if it is true..
2006-08-16 17:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with masterbation. if i were you i would let him watch. i think you'll find that it turns him on. and it will add to your relationship. not many girls are able to ''get off '' in front of their partner. being able to do so only strengthens the bond you already have. try it , trust me you'll be happy you did. oh, before i forget, letting him watch or even participate in some way will enhance your orgasm more than you'd think possible.
2006-08-17 00:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by stacy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him watch. Invite him to help. But show him how, and where, and what you like. Take it as a teaching opportunity.
And... it's not wrong, not the least bit. (Well, if you do it at the bus stop, you'll get in trouble, but as long as you're in private, or with your sweetie, it's just fine.)
2006-08-17 00:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take the opportunity to show him what pleasures you? Hold his hand so that he can feel the pressure, et al - how do you expect him to learn exactly what you need if you don't show him? Much more open than the voyeuristic "letting him watch".
2006-08-17 00:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely not wrong. Guys usually love to watch to see what women do, although some women see it as a very private thing. Maybe you would also like to see what he does.
2006-08-17 01:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbating is not wrong. I do it every day, sometimes several times a day. As for letting him watch, I think it's a good idea because you can show him how to please you.
2006-08-17 00:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by metalheart19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres what i think nobody can make me cumm better then myself you know but i find there is another kind of orgasm which is more indepth when it is given from some one else that knows what there doing and if they dont theres nothing wrong with pointers
2006-08-17 00:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u talking about having your bf watch.? If so go for it. U can teach him what u like, and dont like .
2006-08-17 00:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by misstikal311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to let him watch. if he aint pleasing you, finish yourself off first so u dont have to do it once he falls asleep
2006-08-17 00:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by m j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should.....well i say that cause when me and my GF do things i want her to do it in front of me too or since she doesn't, i want to masterbate her. but i think u should let him unless u think that its kinda violating you then u dont have to
2006-08-17 00:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋