ok my grandma said to me before i was leaving for home you should go to bed earlier then 3 o clock in the morning. you will go to bed in the car. im 15 years old its summer yet and i like to stay up on summer nights. i go to bed like 10 on school nights except weekends, dont you think its the parents that should decide this. do you think my grandma was joking and that i should let this go. also my grandma i dont see often and also i went home with my parents not my grandma. also do you think i should worry about this situation. my grandma dosent even live with me.
2006-08-16 17:24:03 · 9 answers · asked by mayo_girl_2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
also my parents say its ok for me to stay up late. they told me your grandma was just have a fun joke with you dont take it pearsonal. she was just kidding. let it go. its not a serious promblem it has no meaning to it. do you think i should forgive my grandma anf move on.
2006-08-17 14:19:40 · update #1
Yes, grandmothers can't help themselves. Let it go. Some day she'll be gone and you'll miss her like I miss mine.
2006-08-16 17:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most times your parents will go along with what your grandmother say. They may feel that she looking out for your own good and they want to respect her. She probably was not joking but try to understand where she is coming from. It does seem kinda late for a 15 year old to stay up until 3:00. Now if you were my child i would not mind as long as you did not let it interfere with anything else and you respected me. See how your parent feel about it. Just because your grandmother feels that way does not mean that she won't change. Grandparents like to feel needed. Listen to her words " you should go to bed earlier then 3 o clock you will go to bed in the car" She is not telling you what to do,she is showing her feelings and she is letting you know why she feels that way. Acknowledge her feelings and then see what your parents say!
2006-08-17 00:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by candlelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Grandmother deserves your respect, and you are making a mountain out of a mole hill... you're 15, and your Grandma has seen, done, heard, and been it all....she's trying to tell you something without smacking you upside the head....Listen to your Grandma, and then thank her for it when you're older and WISER>>>>>It seems this is something your parents should have had a discussion with you about quite some time ago...now get your @@@ in bed! LOL
2006-08-17 00:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by occasionallyrowdy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must take some value in what your Grandma thinks as you keep thinking about what she said. I think she is telling you this as she is just worried about you. In her mind what is a 15 yr old girl doing up at 3am, I am sure she thinks you just need to take care of yourself. Maybe you should just ask your Grandmother to explain her thoughts on this idea and listen to what she has to say and think again about it. I am sure she loves you very much and is just worried about you. Even if there is no real need to worry, when the ones you love are away from you sometimes you worry needlessly. Talk to her I think it will make you feel better.
2006-08-17 00:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always respect ur elders and listen to what thay say thay say what thay do for reasons and yes i think the parent should have the say so in them things even if u are 15 its there choice what u do till u are 18 or moved out lof there house. or u end up like a person like me. my mom didnt care what i did or when i did it or anything like that and i had a really rough life
2006-08-17 00:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to your parents to raise you. Be respect full to her and just listen her out. If you parents were worried they would tell you so. Just go with the flow in this situation.
2006-08-17 00:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grandma can see things you can not see. You will know this later in life to be true. My advice to you is heed her advice.
2006-08-17 00:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on ! What do you think ?
2006-08-17 01:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU JUST ANSWERED YOUR OWN QUESTION---LET IT GO
2006-08-17 00:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by CoC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋