I want a threesome but I don't know how to tell my boyfriend that?

Answer 1

Open your mouth and tell him or write it in a note.

Answer 2

I would tell him what you want, but not in the bedroom, maybe during a porno movie, when you see it happening (like you ccouldn't totally plan that one!) on the screen, and say, hey Baby, I'd love to try that....I think it's so hot because...then give him your answers, and let him see how hot it gets you by you just talking about it, and then doing what would come naturally.... I do know that you have to be very careful on this, only the strongest of relationships can handle a third...and then sometimes not very good....some things may be better left to a fantasy than to the real thing...but, if he's game, then try it...but don't get a "friend"...find someone anonymously...better that way...

Answer 3

I agree with most of the answers posted here. A guy wouldn't want another guy to touch his girl unless and untill he is Bi. But if it's a girl that you are considering then first you have to know how conservative/liberal, your bf is with respect to sex. You wouldn't want your bf to judge you in a wrong way by just blurting this out as an impulsive statement. Try throwing random and general questions at him first about 3some (2g+1b). See what is reaction is..and then you can just ask him if you guys should try it once. Trust me dear 90% of the guys would rather have a 3some than go to heaven. So you have a good prob. working with you. Hope this helps...good luck!

P.S: I wish you were my gf :-))

Answer 4

Your treading on thin ice here. Is the 3rd person a guy or a girl? Do you know him or her? Threesomes are best done with strangers so that feelings and relationships don't end up int he meat grinder.

Answer 5

be more specific on what kind of threesome you want because it make a big difference on how he will respond I have had both kinds of three somes and the BBG is the best but the GGB is what your boyfriend is more than likely to accept

Answer 6

Introducing a relationship to polygamy is fraught with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundamental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.

Answer 7

I can not believe that a guy would turn down a FMF threesome.

Answer 8

it is quite apparent that i am a minority here and i don't expect to be getting no10 points LOL but i am not a total prude. i am not saying oh you have to wait til your married, but where is your pride and any kind of morals? and shouldn't making love and having fantasies be shared between a man and a woman??? married or not? i guess i feel it should be special between two people whether he's your 5th or 50th partner, to me it's just like cheating and i just don't understand the morals of this world and i am only 38!

Answer 9

Guys are visual beings. They are stimulated by what they see (ie: porn). I suggest you invite your boyfreind over. But when he arrives, leave him a note to join you in the bedroom. Already be involved with this other partner. No doubt from this visual turn-on he will jump in and do his part.

Answer 10

Depends ON what kinda 3some you want. u with 2 guys or you your man and another girl? I think you man would want it MFF. But just tell him and see what he says. joke about it 1st to see what he says then if he gives u the answer u want then go head with it good luck

Answer 11

i would just tell him . all guys want to have a three some but want say anything because they think that the girl wouldn't want one. so just tell him u want to spice up ur $ex life with a three some.