Broke up with my boyfriend this Monday and it turns out we share the same interest activities such as running. Anyway, tomorrow is one of the days we would hang out to go running with our group. My question is, since I decided to not continue as friends. So tomorrow is the first day I will see him after the break-up. Its bound to be an uncomfortable situation. What do you recommend I do to make it less weird especially since we will probably continue to see each other in these group settings twice a week.
Thanks!
2006-08-16 17:09:28 · 25 answers · asked by pretty_nice_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We broke up because he thought that things were getting to serious and he was not ready so he thought it be a better idea that we downgrade to a friend.
2006-08-16 17:22:30 · update #1
It was just this past Monday? Well I think things between you have not yet settled down so I would advise you not to see him just yet if you don't plan to get back together with him. Join another group temporarily. But if you still love him and you are not yet sure how your relationship with him goes, I think if you can endure the pain of the break-up that just happened, you can be civilized with him and go to the group. That way, you can seem mature enough to your groupmates (if they knew what's going on) and in the process you've not lost contact with your ex. What you need to do really depends on what happened why you broke up. Take care and I hope things turn out okay with you.
2006-08-16 17:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by jeni_love_12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't envy that situation. It happens though that's for sure. I would say hi to him in a very casual way and leave it as that. Don't be overly friendly but I think it is best to say hi. It will probably ease some of the tension. Where to go from there.... I guess that's it since you chose not to be friends.
2006-08-16 17:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cara B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do (I guess) is to avoid him. Try not to think about what happen between you and him. Make a conversation about any topic with some of your friends in the group, just to get your mind off it. Distract yourself from what is there. Later you'll adjust to his presence. It will take time. I wish you the best. Good Luck!
2006-08-16 17:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it shifting out isn't an selection you care to locate? in case you will proceed to stay at the same time, you will would desire to make stronger up. curiously your ex has moved on and does not care that his habit hurts you. My suggestion is next time he brings somebody to the abode for although, take the vehicle which you share with him and pass away. He curiously has no concern cavorting around in front of you. it rather is disrespectful to you and quite presumptive of him to think of you may supply up your mattress for him and his new weigh down. it rather is a undesirable situation. i might easily do each and every thing i'd desire to to get out of it. Sharing a house, a vehicle & a mattress with an ex isn't one in each and every of those warm theory.
2016-09-29 08:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd run some where else to avoid being in a uncomfortable situation,then again you can take the same route that's if your not serious about the breakup.
2006-08-16 17:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by babibrowneyes143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on what the situation was for the break up. If it was a mutual break up (not cheating or something), then i recommend to talk to him if he talks to u or if he looks at u or something. Other than that, everything should be ok.
2006-08-16 17:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to run, if it doesn't work out and is to difficult, Find a different group to run with.
2006-08-16 17:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by oceanjen2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he wants to run behind you, don't run. If he takes off ahead of you (starts ahead), go ahead a run, then take another route when since he isn't looking
2006-08-16 17:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by ricosuarve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are going to be seeing each other offten then u should be friends with him. it's a lot less ackward to be friends than not to be and see each other all the time
2006-08-16 17:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by baby_blue_blonde87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say ...ignore him. It depends why you broke up in the first place. If it was his fault, ignore him and do what you have to do, or change groups. If it was your fault you guys broke up, than you won't have to worry, he'll ignore you.
2006-08-16 17:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by Niyela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋