i have a boyfriend and well i know i don't love him but if i leave him i know i'm going to miss him and want him back...so if it's not love what is it? :(
2006-08-16 16:58:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have strong feelings for him most likely. Love takes time and doesn't come right away, if you feel that way then it may be lust if it's early in the relationship.
2006-08-16 17:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know him well, and have spent time with him (conversation,dating, ect.)
Then I would say what you are feeling is a good strong friendship
and also compassion........
You know the feeling you get when you see something like,
a puppy with no home or mom???
Feeling sorry for someone that has gone through something awful????
An elderly person having trouble moving from A to B????
The feeling I feel when I see things such as this is compassion...
I want to help or to make it all better....
Having feelings such as yours means you have a good heart.....
You have to let him go.......
Your missing him and wanting him back is not enough for a relationship......
Oops i guess you didn't ask about all that....... lol
Your feeling in my opinion is nothing more than a very strong friendship, and definitely not relationship material......
Use your heart and the compassion that you'll find there and find someone you care for stronger than the feeling your experiencing with your current boyfriend
Good Luck
2006-08-16 17:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Larry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just really into him you dont have to be in love to be in a relationship
2006-08-16 17:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust, but maybe you really do love him and just don't realize it ( or don't want to).
2006-08-16 17:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by iamjustme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a really strong like or lust. or u could love him
2006-08-16 17:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by xsweetypiex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you do love him. you just want to deny it. it's happened to me.
2006-08-16 17:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by tovahh. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
selfishness..
2006-08-16 17:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋