there is a girl i like from school, i find her attractive, and i would like to date her, but she has said no, and said she only sees us as just friends, and she says she likes someone else as well, and she also says that shes waiting for them to ask her out but i want her to know i exist, and let her know how much she means to me, in a way that wont make me seem weird,but i just want her to be happy. Is there any hope for me? or should I let it go?
2006-08-16 16:49:06 · 4 answers · asked by Bo W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When a girl already said no..she mean it especially if she is already attracted to somebody else.But that does not you no longer have the chance. If you really want to make her happy..just be there for her as friend (as she told you).Let her know that you respected her decision.And also in taht way, yu can be nice to her and make her feel comfortable. Get to know each other well. You see girls don't like to be forced or those guys who keep on insisting. You will just have to learn to accept and wait. I met this guy before who keeps on insisting..to the point I have to turn him down several times. I know it hurt him more BUT the fact that once I told him already that we are meant ot be friends. And now..he ruined the frinedship we once had. Hope this helps. God bless!
2006-08-16 17:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go. Don't set yourself up for a heartbreak. She's already telling you upfront that she only sees you as a friend. Why would you want to put anymore emotions and feelings in it? You'd just end up hurting your ego and your pride in the end and possibly bring down your self-esteem because you feel rejected. So trust me, since you haven't put that much effort in this relationship yet, let it go. Find someone else. Good luck!
2006-08-17 00:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by 00jag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in the same boat and all i can say is keep paddlin! this girl should realise how special she is to have somone care so much for her, there arent many guys like that. this girl must not be very smart to be so blind about what's right in front of her, unless your a shy guy who refuses to show it, then i'd have more sympathy for her.
2006-08-16 23:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by buttmunchiezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u been rejected. move on!!!!!
2006-08-17 00:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋