Why cant I find a woman who'll respect me and not be a slut? Why cant I find friends who arent scumbags? What the ****? Life is just a big waste of time.
2006-08-16 16:47:53 · 12 answers · asked by smokewizzle44 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, you vented. Feel better? We all have days like this. Get a good night's rest.
Perhaps tomorrow you'll chase a butterfly or see a rainbow, or get an unexpected visit from somebody you really like, or find some money in your pocket you forgot you had, or any one of a thousand of the little things that go into making a good day. When you do, don't feel guilty about what you said tonight. Just remember that life has ups and downs. Appreciate the ups! Learn from the downs!
Where there is life there is always hope. Run on and see what the end will be!
2006-08-16 16:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Run with dogs and you'll catch fleas. Life is basically what we make it. We can choose to run with whomever we choose and people are always going to judge you by your peers. If your having troubles finding a faithful female partner then maybe your looking in the wrong direction or at the wrong kind of woman. As far as your friends being scumbags - well I wouldn't even call my enemies scumbags so obviously your not that close to these associates. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and make some wise life choices and change your enviornment and if you select the right one you'll find that life, although not always a bowl of cherries, is all we have so make the best of it.
2006-08-16 16:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hang in there. I was divorced about 3 years ago. Life was the pits for a year until I started dating online and since then my life is restored. I met some wonderful people online. Of course there were bumps along the way. My current gf is one which restored me. I am once again a happy person with purposes in life. She "completes me".
Just hang in there. Things worthwhile takes time.
2006-08-16 16:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by MrSushiRoll 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
join the club now every one will tell you give it time it works for every one differently. You just made bad choices and tings will get better... They are all full of s h i t most of those have people in their lives. I say when they spend a day in my shoes then they can talk.....there is not someone out there for everyone. some of us were meant to spend our lives alone. enough people have taught us this over the years by their atitudes and lack of respect for us. so make their lives miserable and continue living and getting in their faces and remind them that they can't drive us away.
2006-08-16 17:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to examine yourself. You can tell why you cant find such people you need for there may be something wrong... Change your ideals too. YOur ideals can afect everything. One day, friends come and the next day, they go. MAybe you are not aware that it is you sending them away because you expect too much from them.
Maybe you need to find rthe meaning of life not by this way. Maybe you need to find other things you need to be busy with... Women and friends are not the answer to your boredom.. again, maybe...
2006-08-16 16:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are what you believe yourself to be. Having a mindset like Trump or Gates or Woods would make you enjoy your life and be surrounded by success. Good luck.
2006-08-16 16:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by kaiserchief 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all don't blame others or look to others to make your life happy or complete, let them completely out of it!!! now lets look at you> ah, that is not so easy to do is it? do you bring happiness to others? do you feel satisfied with yourself? who you are?what you are doing?where you are going? the attitude that we display sometimes attracts the same type of people. when we stop thinking of ME ME ME (because it's not about you) and try to bless others, our life changes. remember happiness is temporary,and it comes from circumstances. joy is forever and deep within, even if you've just had the crappiest day of your life. i hope you understand.
2006-08-16 17:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
life is wonderful and not all women are bad theres a lot of us good ones left you just hasve to look good luck
2006-08-16 16:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
bad outlook on life... you need to chill and be on your own. you know what works????.......................move if your that down and out. new people and surrounding are good for the soul. and drink water!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-16 16:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by egoodkis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move. Try again.
2006-08-16 17:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋