How often should I call a girl I just met?

Question

Does anyone have a prescription for how often they call a girl to go out or to chat? We have gone out to a great date where we almost had sex. I have gone out with her twice. I call this girl I just met once a week, but I want to call her more. She doesn't like talking on the phone and she said that. I usually can write her an email and she writes back right away. She very honestly told me every specific thing that she has coming up that she is so busy and travelling. Part of me thinks she is still interested because she keeps replying to my emails but another part tells me that she is not interested because she doesn't take my calls or return my calls. When I ask her out on email she says that sound very nice...I would like to do that another time maybe...Why is she this way? How often calling her is too much? How can I be more smooth and have a better game plan?

Answer 1

She may find talking on the phone awkward. Use email and/or instant messaging for talking and getting to know her. Use the phone to make plans - ask her to hang out again.

Theres no rule-of-thumb for how often you should call a girl, but since this girl has expressed to you that she doesnt like to talk on the phone, you should respect that by only calling her when necessary.

She may or may not be interested. What do her email responses look like? Does she answer your questions, ask you questions, and seem to have put some effort into them? Or does she simply respond with a quick sentence or two? This may tell you a lot about her feelings for you.

Answer 2

Well I think the key is to show her a balance of interest and and also that you have your own life. So if you call her once and she doesn't answer then leave a voicemail and don't call her back. You need to allow her to call you too. Everyone can see they've had a missed call and a voicemail is surely letting her know you called. If she doesn't get back to you then a friendly text the next day is cool. But if she's still not responding then she's not interested... give her enough space to where you can see she's interested too. Don't call a woman more than once a day unless she tells you to call more. Clingy men will never be attractive.

Answer 3

I don't know, but it sounds like she's not very interested and just doesn't want to be too rude. Why don't you just come right out and ask her. Be tactful about it, so she has an out if she wants it. At least then you would know. Who wants to play these games, ya know?

Answer 4

I dont like talking on the phone, as do many women. it's natural. if she's responding to your emails, theres a good chance she likes you. stick with the emails.

Answer 5

just don't call her for a while and let her call u. if u want to talk to her then just write for a while. let her come to u. if she likes u she will.

Answer 6

Honey, it sounds to me like she is busier in her life than ever and doesn't have TIME for a relationship.........Just hang in there and give her space.........The best way to lose someone you may be interested in is to try to push........Take your time, dear..........

Answer 7

You should first ask her to marry you and have sex and then live happily ever after...

Answer 8

well just call her twice a week now and see what she says or does

Answer 9

Hmmm..... it's varies from person to person.

Give me her number and I will ask her for you.

Is she hot ?

Answer 10

ask her to be straight with you if u are wasting your time or not