Like when a girl is venting about something and is like crying to you and you like her but you arent going out. What do you do? What do you say?
2006-08-16 16:17:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
more in likly all she wants is some one to listin to her. she is going through a hard time and needs some one to be there for her.
and u are that person right now. just be a friend and be there for her.
2006-08-16 16:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by baby_blue_blonde87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just let her cry and vent. Just try to comfort her and just be her friend. The best relationships start by just being friends, because you are getting to kow each other. If she is crying and venting to you then she must feel comfortable around you.
2006-08-16 23:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her things will turn out all right no matter how difficult it may be now. Then leave it at that. Don't try to solve the problem for her. You will be tempted to want to help, but that's likely not why she confides in you. Just reassure her.
2006-08-16 23:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her VENT sometimes that is all they want.
DO NOT TRY TO FIX a thing you do not sound experienced to FIX things like leaking eyes and yelling girls...
so don't do it!
JUST LISTEN and give her a NICE hug...and really listen...
can you do that?
GOOD go to it!
2006-08-16 23:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Samuella SilverSelene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just listen, ask her a few questions to let her know your listening and if you are comfortable hug her. You can hug and hold, you can just hug her and let go, you can stroke her back or just pat her shoulder. Whatever your comfortable with, and always tell her things will get better or things will be ok, whatever works for ya.
2006-08-16 23:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lira101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just hold her even if your not together shes in a time of need and comfort her, listen to what shes crying about and BE ON HER SIDE because she doesnt need any crap at the time
2006-08-16 23:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would deliever motivated message to her and to encourage that she needs to get over it and to move forward.
2006-08-16 23:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by jaythewarthog 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you comfort her and give her some good advice on her situation
2006-08-16 23:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by carissa t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her, DO NOT let her make YOU the guy she cries to.
Be a D1ck. . .she'll find you irresistable.
I don't like it either, but I didn't make the rules.
2006-08-16 23:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by ThatGuy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
offer tissue paper?
2006-08-16 23:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Abarai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋