Me and my girlfriend have been in love since we were 17, and our love gets stronger by the secong. We are both 21 now. I have waited for her because its the right thing to do. Yesterday I told her we should make love and I could not live without her and I wanted us to commit our bodies to each other as well. She want on saying her love is stonger and I dont understand and that I wont wait for her, Im confused. She told me that she would do it just because of me in a tone to make me feel guilty, and obviously I dont want it when she tries to guilt me like tis. Its because I love her I want her, not because Im greedy or have less feelings then her. God Im confused, what should I do? PLEASE HELP !!
2006-08-16 16:17:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And yes, she wants to wait till we are married, that is 3 years from now, since both our parents know as well we want each other.
2006-08-16 16:29:22 · update #1
oh and one more thing, shes muslim and Im not.
2006-08-16 16:31:28 · update #2
If you truly love her, you will respect your wishes. Guess what? Your constant requests probably make her feel guilty too. Except she's being made to feel guilty for holding to her standards, and you feel guilty because she is unwillingly giving in....which is in fact the truth of the matter. You have worn her down to the point that she has to choose between your happiness or her standards...and either way, she's going to be miserable. She can't take back having sex, but you can sure stop putting pressure on her. And that's what you should do. Think with your brain.
2006-08-16 16:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, i went thru what u did. i did man and i hit myself everyday for being so STUPID!
either u screw her now or u leave her, thats final.
dude, u gotta cycle thru my questions until u get to the one where i ask the very same question! "why didnt she have sex with me?"
and u know what? do u know what?! she banged the next guy that walked into her life, less than weeks after we broke up. and she didnt let me screw her 5 years! 5 friggin years!
so, u better screw her now, while u still got the chance, cause it seems to me like she aint serious about it, or she's holding out for a stud or whatever crazy thing chicks do!
do it man! do her now! before u break up with her, and she's polishing somebody else's knob.
ok, my question was removed because it was months ago, but u get my point! dont be like man. dont u regret this.
do it. dont let her guilt worry u. just do it.
2006-08-16 23:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she want wait til she is married? If that is what she wants, do not take that from her. She may want to give her virginity to her husband. If it is you oneday, consider yourself lucky. Just because it is 2006 doesn't make her anything less. She is a respectable woman and be grateful she is yours.
2006-08-16 23:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by dizzyangels321 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay witth her but fukc other babes secretly because u obviously have vagina feelings if u can wait 5 years with the same girl
2006-08-17 00:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by gcollins711 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is patient if you really love her you will wait until she is comfortable to do that! i dont think you should push her into it.. its something special dont mess it up!!
2006-08-16 23:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by nirE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a blowup doll.
2006-08-16 23:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by lovinonly#1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋