im a guy...but my chest.......?

Question

im a 14 yeal old guy but my chest is damn big that it looks like a woman breast

its very big

that every time i take of my shirt in front of my friend they make fun of me

even my father make fun of me in front of the whole family

i feel very sad cuz now i even cant go 2 the nearest swimmingpool

everytime i wear my t-shirt....my father says wear a bra inside before u wear the t-shirt

please help me solve this problem

Answer 1

Dear friend,
You can follow the advices othesr here gave you:
1. Go to doctor / peditrician. He will know how help you best.
2. Try meanwhile making exercise and a diet. Because your age only need to cut the junk food and sweets. Think that you had already taste it then now your waiting till right weight to try it again.
3. Defend yourself! No body is perfect! These guys SHOULD have some defects. Noose, ears, arms, mental, funny story they don't like to remember, many things! Just pick 2 or three funny nick names for each one and WAIT for their making fun of you. Use internet to pull interesting nick names,. I'm sure you'll find some usefull and funny for all. So all could laught about their problems. :D
4. Your father is so wrong! He is really a bad parent doing so. Tell him that many people think that what he is doing about joking is bad and many people supports you. I know he may won't lisen but try it FOR YOU. Stand up for you IN FRONT your WHOLE family. Just in the spot (the time he is joking at you). Thell that what he does is hurting you and that what will he think if you joke about a weekness he might have. Other answer could be just humor and put a nick name he doesn't like and that very fit him. Tell it in fron of your whole family. He deserves it. Tell them you received the advice from here. And print the whole pages with all the advices we gave you so he will understand.

Have fun my men!
If you like this advice check it as best answer pls

Answer 2

Yea that first answer could be it, but its more likely to be fat. Liston your still young, the younger you are the easier it is to get into routines, the better off you are. Your dad is doing wrong by you saying that in front off your family, but he probably thinks hes helping you. Embarrassing you to want to lose the wait. But it doesn't work to good does it?

Any way, use that to motivate yourself to work out. Some chest exercises, running or something. You wanna do cardio to lose the wait and some light wait lifting (light b/c your too young for heavy) to strengthen the muscles. Go to a gym get a personal trainer and knock the problem on its *** before it gets worst.

Best of luck to you,

Answer 3

I remember my brother had that problem. He got teased too, but lost his fatty breast tissue as he got older.

Can you tell your father to knock it off?

Most boys grow out of it if they are not overweight. As you get taller the fat tends to go away and your muscles will develop more. If you are worried get your parents to make an appointment for you at the doctor so you can get a checkup. Get your father to go with you so the doctor can talk some sense into his head and tell him not to tease you and that everything is normal.

In the mean time eat right, stay away from junk food, get plenty of exercise. Maybe start a weight lifting program or take martial arts.

Answer 4

Are you overweight?

That could affect that area of your body. I would suggest trying to get into some sort of exercise program to tone up a little bit. Sounds like you need to convert some fat into muscle.

The good news is if you take care of yourself you will probably outgrow the condition. Taking care of yourself means exercise and toning up the upper body. And you may need to watch your diet.

It won't happen in a day or two. You will have to work at it and you might want to check with a P.E. teacher or a trainer to determine the best approach to that.

Meantime, try to keep your sense of humor. Joke back. Make fun of yourself if you can.

Your dad needs a class on parenting. Making fun of your kids is wrong, wrong, wrong. Even if he loves you he should know this is hurtful and he should ease up. You might try privately mentioning this to your mom or to another family member, unless you feel bold enough to go to him directly.

Answer 5

you most likely have gynecomastia, where men can actually develop breast like tissue... this is generally caused by excessive estrogen and a decrease in testosterone levels in the body. if you are also overweight, then the weight can also be part of the problem.. if it is gynecomastia, there is surgery which i guess could be classed as similar to a breast reduction in women, but they would remove all of the excess tissue so that your chest will be like a mans again... i strongly suggest talking to your doctor about all of this. they are there to help. and your dad isn't being a very good role model by making fun of you. always remember it's not your fault, but you can change it. (in canada those surgeries are free, but i'm unsure about other countries).

i hope this helps.

all my love

Answer 6

are you overweight? just try a simple diet...nothing too dramatic, just cut back on sweets and junk food.

also, if you want to go in the pool, just wear a t-shirt into the water if you don't want them to make fun of you. people can be so cruel sometimes, but don't let it ruin your summer.

just exercise a little more, like a few times a week, you should see some results.

Answer 7

exactly how tall are you here , you may have what they call a thrriod conditionn is your mothers brothers sisters tub of lards?? do you have brothers who are experiencing the same kind of thing here if your brothers are over weight or if you have a thyriod conditionn, get to see a doctorr, you might be going threw a lot of hell in your life etc, with the kind of chest you are talking about here or if your family is very overweight does it run in your family?? get to see a doctor etc as fast as you can!or else wear a bra!!!

Answer 8

Even though you are like that, many people are different and have something that is irregular. Try to avoid it and if you can't get somebody who will stand on your side. Or you can make fun of them back by saying their weirdness.

Answer 9

you've revealed this question 4 cases formerly already. it is fantastic. If it bothers you a lot, get a breast help. It shouldn't harm in the course of the technique inspite of the undeniable fact that it would want to afterwards.

Answer 10

Hey pal, many men have this same condition. I'm 52 years old and have bigger boobs than my wife. Don't let it bother you. Manhood is measured from the neck up not the neck down.