my mom abuses me?

Question

my mom abuses me for no reason sometimesshe just messes with me and then laugh i actually think she hates me i dont want to report her to the police because she works there and they wont belive a little kid like me i am just so scared i dont want to take counciling either i dont know what i should do some times she hits me with the broom im scared that im going to kill myself i almost came close to it one day i was in the bathroom and i was just so mad i almost drowned myself my gerbil died yesterday and she actually started crying after 2 years of calling him ugly and she blammed that i killed him im just so sick of her i dont want her to die then what will i have can you please help me i dont know what to do

p.s i am just doing this to find out how many answers a person can get thx and my mom DOESNT abuse me thanks

Answer 1

I am sorry this is happening to you. You are very strong and you are very smart, and you will not allow anyone including your mom to screw up your life. Now, the next time she hits you, you dial 911 right there, and say to the operator "My mom hits me hard! Help!" You have to do it. You have to call the police. Police will come over. They will question her. Don't worry whether they will believe you or not, SHE is the one who will have to give explanations and the question is whether they will believe HER or not. In any case, if you call the police, she will know that you CAN stand up for yourself and she will think twice before hitting you ever again. She will learn her lesson. If however she won't and will hit you again indeed, then you call the police again, and again, and again. Do not give up until she STOPS abusing you. Keep calling the police on her.
The emotional and verbal abuse are worse than the physical one. Here what you have to do. Do you have a teacher in your school whom you really like? Tell him sometimes after the class how your mom abuses you and that you wanted to kill yourself. If you feel like you can't tell the teacher face to face, then write it in a letter and give that letter to the teacher to read. If you don't have a teacher you like, then tell it to the school principal. I know you are scared, but you've got to do whatever it takes to protect yourself!
I also know that you are very brave and smart. You already took the first step by placing your story here. Now you know what you must do. You must call the police the next time she hits you, and you tell your teacher or the school principal how she abuses you. Stay strong!

Answer 2

Listen sweetheart you NEED to call the police, if she’s left any marks on you then they will believe you! Your mother is very wrong in the head so she NEEDS some counseling. Do you have a father? Grandparents? Cousin? Aunt/Uncle? That you can live with? I know how worried you are right now but if you keep going and get social services involved you can get somewhere believe me! Try to stay out of the house in the mean time, go see a movie, friend, family anything to get your mind off of the situation. DON’T hurt yourself! You have TOO much to live for! Remember God loves you and your in my prayers. If you need to talk to anyone you can E-Mail me anytime!

Answer 3

I would push the ***** down a rusty fire escape. Or whip her real good w/ a vacum cleaner cord. Or glue her fingers together while she is sleeping. Or replace her shampoo w/bleach. Oh man the list goes on and on. Of course this what I would do. You should probably go to the police.

Answer 4

You should quickly tell somebody that is close to you. Like a family realtive, a teacher, or anybody who you know that will stand by your side. And you should report to a police, detective and find evidence that your mom abuses you.

Answer 5

even if you dont want to, you need to tell the police. i know it can be pretty scary and they might not believe you, but this is pretty serious. talk to some other and tell them everything w/o letting your mom know about it. somehow you need to get video proof or some sort of proof and give it to the police and the you were talking too. then they will have a reason to believe you. god bless!
~jenny

Answer 6

you really need to turn her in i dont care if she works for the police dept.it is not right that she lay her hands on u like that i do believe in punishment but not abuse.where is your dad? do u have other relatives around u?its really sad that u are afraid of your mom im sorry for u.you have to go and tell someone before she really hurts u bad sometime.

Answer 7

call children services and tell them that your mother abuses you and where she works. It is your life if you do not speak up then your alway going to be a pown in life. or maybe talk to an investigator he could set up some camera's and record her hitting you and prove your case.

As I said it is your life. Good Luck and God be with you

Answer 8

look, if your mom abuses, ITS SERIOUS! you shouldnt hold that in to yourself, it can be a serious mental damage. you should report her to the police or call emergency (911). it doesnt matter if she works as a police. she uses that to scare you and make you believe they wont believe you. if an adoptive home sounds horrible to you, think twice. act before something real bad happens.

Answer 9

I know what it is like i was a foster child and was beat alot so i understand. Killing yourself isnt worth it. Sometimes its best to ignore it or tell some one you can trust a friends mom or close relative.

Answer 10

sound very similar to my life. I was surprised I survived my childhood. I mentally fired my parents and put God on my side. I turned my hurt into strength and used it as a fuel to succeed. I spent every spare moment trying to improve my education. I refused to become like my parents. As a result, I am a very strong successful adult.

All things are possible through God who strengthens me.

You definitely need God when you are living in hell.