it has already been 2 years since we broke up and we dont even live in the same country but i just can't seem to forget him. he has even gone out with a few other girls since we broke up. is this normal???
2006-08-16 16:11:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal,and take your age into account
also!!! We really should not date too young
because each break up we have takes us
down deeper into a world of sadness and
that can weaken our self confidence.
Trust that you are a normal person,and if
you do,that healing will happen naturally.
You'll be ok! I promise!
also,to get through it easier in the beginning,
enotalone.com is a great site to vist!
love ya',& take care!
2006-08-17 01:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to get over this person in order to move on with ur life. If u don't u might regret it, and not like urself for it. The best solution is to find someone else. It may feel like ur cheating, but in reality u r not and u need to remind urself of that. Obviously he has moved on, u need the same. It would be really good for u, mentally and physically. I was once told some wise words, it was from a girl I met. "Everyone is replaceable, even ur best friend." There are soo many people in the world. U will eventually find that person that will take ur mind off of ur ex. Till then good luck.
P.S. Please don't ever go see a quack for help about this. There are many people offering free help here.
2006-08-16 16:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mikey C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is normal i mean a 2 year relationship is pretty long and its easy to get attached to someone that you've been with for that long but i do believe you should move on because it can get like unhealthy because if you cant forget him then how do you expect to date other guys and have a good relationship with them? i mean i know its hard to forget someone you loved and all but it must be done what i do to forget ex's is i think about every thing no matter how little it was but everything they did that made me upset or mad and i will try to put aside the good times until im fully over them idk it works for me but i hope i helped somewhat atleast lol
2006-08-16 16:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by blurred_memories09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go, 2 years is a good time to rise above the break-up and stop thinking of him, he sure does not spend his time thinking of you too, so why bother.. you may have to deal with better things and other things, go find yourself a hobby and give yourself a chance to date with somebody out there, i'm sure if you keep an open mind...you will realize there are so many fishes i the sea...
2006-08-16 16:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sheepish TinTin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not being able to move on is what most ex's want...
You will always remember the experience, but what you will remember more is how silly you were to sit around for a couple of years and mope over him. Move on, have fun, and enjoy your life. There are a lot of nice and lonely men out there waiting for you. One will be right...
2006-08-16 16:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by curiousandsmiley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were in the relationship for a really long time I say you'll always have feeling for a person.....but I think you should look to new and better relationships......obviously you guys broke up for a reason!!!
2006-08-16 16:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by *only~wishful~thinking* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i still miss my ex too after 8 months now shes seeing another guy now ive seen a couple of girls since but still have feelings for her as we went through so much together
2006-08-16 20:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by ward1703 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its always normal to miss your ex but after 2 years you should have moved on awhile a go
2006-08-16 16:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u truly care about some one it is hard to get over them. and it could take a long time to do. im going through the same thing right now. i really care about some one and he is seeing my best friend or ex friend. and its hard to see them together. if u need some one to talk to u can write me @
baby_blue_blonde87@yahoo.com
2006-08-16 16:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by baby_blue_blonde87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no.. you live in the PAST! move on ! it is happening to me the same. Sucks! but... try to get busy with other things cheerio mate
2006-08-16 16:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Parallax 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋