my exboyfriend dumped me to date my best friend. im still friends with this girl but i still love my boyfriend. how do i get over him/get revenge?? (which is mean sounding but the big long story of wat happends is worse)???
2006-08-16 15:51:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way to get over him, you are too much of a doormat, which you proved by still being friends with the girl. I know a doctor you can see for that empty head of yours.
2006-08-16 15:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I would seriously be questioning a friendship with a girl who has decided to date your ex. I am pretty sure that the #1 rule of friendship is that any ex is off limits.
Second, you have to believe that you are a decent, open hearted person and by doing so, you must DEMAND the same of anyone else who is part of your life. That includes this ex of yours. Is he really the kind of person who deserves you? Be discriminating of those you associate with and you will find yourself in less situations like this.
Remember, the best revenge you could exact on these two people would be to walk away from them. Don't put anymore energy into this situation - show them they are not even worth your consideration. And after a while, maybe not tomorrow or the next day, but after awhile you will find that you really don't think about them anymore and you really don't care anymore and maybe by then you will have found someone who is really worth your love and attention.
2006-08-16 16:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Heather L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ? you need to ask yourself is why are you still friends with her??? She is obviously not your friend. This is reality not soap opera. In Soap Opera land, it is acceptable to swap partners but that is b/c there are only a limited amount of characters to be involved in the plot/story line. There are billions of pp in the real world. Thus there were a lot of other guys she could have found to get involved with.
The best way to get over him is to pamper yourself. GO to a spa, go shopping, etc. Don't obsess over him. The best revenge will be that he sees that you don't care, that his actions are not affecting you.
2006-08-16 16:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by dakotanmisty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would date his best friend. He will be jealous. To keep yourself from thinking of him keep yourself busy all the time. Always have plans from when you wake up until ten or eleven at night. After that you can spend the last few hours of your night on-line or watching TV. Better yet go clubbing and hook up with hot guys. Make sure someone sees you and he will sure find out and be very jealous. Good luck
2006-08-16 15:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how i feels to be dumped like this. my ex dumped me on his prom and left with my now ex best friend theres no easy way to get over him just dont let him see your upset he can use it against you trust me. but revenge is never the way to handle this situation you just need time to think.
2006-08-16 16:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by lazy!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dumped you, and u still love him?? c'moonnn, dont be so stupid!! but i tell u, the girl is even more stupid than u, because she didnt have feeling/heart that she dares to hurt her own friend (you)....just forget them, , no need to have relation with stupid people...find another one, much better boy, im sure there is one for you out there. you only need to pass some obstacles first and be patient. and when u find the new boy, make sure this boy isnt dating with any girls so you wont be like your friend, make sense??...god is always with u, my friend...good luck!!
2006-08-16 16:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by DinDarling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh duh get back together if you still love him. Revenge is an aweful way of showing love. Give him another shot even though he sounds like a douche bag. If you want anything in life you gotta go for it.
2006-08-16 16:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is how you get over him stop being friend with that hoe and get a new boyfriend that is one of his friends and see how he like that one or even better his old bother if he has one or someone in his family you know ...........................................
2006-08-16 15:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by lovelytweety7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shopping. and shopping and sleepover
2006-08-16 15:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mango 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you beat her a$$ then his
2006-08-16 15:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋