My friend and I are goin' shoppin' and cute guyz always look, but I don't know how or what to say. Any suggestions? Remember now,I'm super shy, When it comes 2 guys.
2006-08-16 15:43:58 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to build up some confidence and self esteem. Im sure if the guys are looking, you must be an attractive girl to have so many guys interested. Just try to take a deep breath, and when you see a guy looking at you, smile back at him...
Good luck
2006-08-16 15:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say a simple hello. You can go together with your friend. Ask them about the surroundings and why they are there. Talk to new people that you are interested in being friends with. If they dont like you or respect you, they dont deserve to be your friend. Be honest and be yourself and true friends will come to you. Be more outgoing and friendly and most importantly have fun =) good luck, just be yourself, there are tons of people that would be so grateful to have you as a friend. There are no bad sides to being less shy, If you lose or have a bad experience, try again. On the other hand if you stay shy you made miss out on a lot of new oppotunities. Being less shy will help you throughout your life.
good luck and i hope you get a cuteeeeee guy. =) remember to be yourself =)
2006-08-16 15:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by Wonderful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use 2 be shy, i always thought i would say something stupid and embarass myself. till 1 day i decided 2 try 2 embarass myself by going up 2 ppl and saying the dumbest **** i could think of and what i found out is when u try 2 embarass your self its impossible 2 get embarassed, some girls thought i was funny and some thought i was stupid but u know what i didnt give a shlt
2006-08-16 15:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make conversation by sayin stuff like what do u perfer your gurls to wear u know just be flirty and stuff and if dat dont work try on some cute short or jean dat look good on your buut and just let the day flow by good luck sweet heart and dont be shy, being shy can lead to boreing ness
2006-08-16 15:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by spongebizze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu say hello, how are you if asked.
Then , of they want to get to know you, do not give out a phobne number unless you can meet them somewhere else. Instead, say why don't they join you shopping and give some advice on styles. If they come along, they want to get to know you.
That is a prelude to giving out a number later.
2006-08-16 15:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by smiling. Try to work up the courage to say hi or introduce yourself. If all else fails just give them an encouraging look to let them know you are interested.
2006-08-16 15:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by scarletts_mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress rlly hotand make the guys look at u then act like urnot so intrested but enough to talk to them soon ul fell ok that they r droolin over u not the other way around kinda like a confidence boost
2006-08-16 15:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by babykatnr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i agree with jude joeph except probably not that deep but you do need to get over that i was super shy too and when i got over that i had alot more fun and people had more fun wit me so jump out of your box and go for it hope it works ok bye
2006-08-16 15:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be shy? Just break the shyness and walk up to them and introduce yourself. Be the Goofball for once, You can do it....trust me once you do, you'll never go back to that shyness again.
2006-08-16 15:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, what Judge Joseph said.
2006-08-16 15:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋