Maybe i am a lipstick lesbian?? My boyfriend thinks it is hot....
2006-08-16 15:43:52 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All men think two girls together are hot.
I think most people might have a twist on occasion, or more than an occasion for the same sex. I bet, if everyone owned up to it, we would all be laughing and joking.
A Gay or Lesbian person self defines and selects the same sex for a relationship, sex, love and romance more so than they would the person of the opposite sex, or exclusively so.
A bisexual has the erotic ideas for relationship, sex, love and romance more it seems with both sexes.
I can't tell you is you are a lipstick lesbian, but, I would imagine, if you fell for a girl, and it turned into dating, you might think about reading up on bisexuality.
If you are with a boyfriend, I think you are probably being very honest and having fun. Enjoy! Don't let others tell you who you are, read up, talk up in forums like this and have a blast!
Also, I have noitced, girls seem to think and talk about this much more easier than guys do, which I find interesting.
2006-08-16 15:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Obviously you're still attracted to your boyfriend, correct?
You shouldn't think of sexuality as either your're gay or you're straight. Think of it as a continuum and everyone is placed on that continuum somewhere. Very few people (if any at all!) are placed on one or extreme or the other, so you really don't need to worry about anything!
I guess you could try doing the lesbian thing and see if you like it.. ;)
2006-08-16 15:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by mgrazus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To think of these things is normal. No you are not gay for thinking about it. It is a pleasure to have a person perform acts that make you feel good. This is not a natural love, but a fullfillment of a desire. You may be gay from only liking women as you feel you are only attracted to women. Your boyfriend does not understand the difference between love and lust at this point.
2006-08-16 15:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE BOSS HAVE SPOKEN
yes u are gay if i say some ish like i often think aobut dudes and erotic thoughts of dude raming it up me but i never tired that would make me gay. the only thing is your a girl so its coo to be gay i aint mad at u if i was your dude ill like it to but u will never be my main chick acting liek but a coo @ side dish
2006-08-16 16:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with a girl before, but I think that was only cuz I was drunk off my *** and was having a 3 some. It was alright, prolly would have been better if i was more into women, but I LOVE men.
I have to agree with most the comments, it is prolly just cuz you are experimental. Go for it, and if u like it, then you might be les.
2006-08-16 15:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mambers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. And what the heck is a lipstick lesbian? I personally cannot comprehend gay relationships, they repell me and I don't think they are natural...but each to their own.
2006-08-16 15:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't necessarily mean you are gay. Sexuality is fluid. It's not gay/straight, hetero/ homo. Everyone has thoughts about the same sex, some have thoughts that are stronger than other or more than others do. No need to question your sexuality like that. Just be yourself.
2006-08-16 15:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by webstoragea1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being with someone sexually and loving someone of the same sex usually is the line of whether your just a hetero and curious girl or an actual lesbian.
2006-08-16 15:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by 35 and loving it! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homoerotic thoughts, fantasies and dreams are very normal, especially when considering how important our sexuality is in defining us. A majority of people experience these during adolecence, but that does not mean that these won't happen in adulthood. Are you gay? Doubtful.
2006-08-16 15:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by Wayne-o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just curious, but there is no harm in a little bit of experimentation.
Besides, most heterosexual women have one or two females that they would totally do.
But if you want to find out by doing the deed.... do it for YOU, not from pressure from your boyfriend, ok? Take care and good luck. :)
2006-08-16 15:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by digitalgimpling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋