how do i get over it?

Question

me and my b/f broke up and i dont no how to get over him we went out for a year so i really did like him and i dont no why we broke up we just did some one please help me get over it.

Answer 1

I and my bf broke up about three years ago and it took quite some time to forget of course. It really hurt me as I still liked him, and I felt like dying, couldn't concentrate on my work. But I had to find a way to get over it and go on with my life. I had another male friend who got to know my problem. He would call me now and then to comfort me and that diverted my thinking from my bf a bit. But what helped me most was to think all over about our relationship, all the negative things he had and why breaking off with him was a good thing for my future. When I think what will happen to me if I put up with him with all his bad characters, it really helped me to get over my feelings. Give a try and at the same time look for other male friends. He doesn't have to be your bf but a good male friend, who's concerned for you will certainly soothe you with encouraging words. When you get more male friends you will be able to compare their characters with your ex bf and then you will know what a good thing it is to break up with your ex. All the best.

Answer 2

This is a good start to getting over it, talking about it incessantly. Via yahoo answers, your friends, to anyone who will listen. You'll work out the various scenario's of why you broke up in your head and finally, time will heal the empty spot in your heart. Talk talk talk and time time time.

Remember, too, that most relationships end in a breakup, it wasn't because of you that it ended, it was just not the right time to consumate a formal relationship.

Good luck.

Answer 3

It will take time, especially if you loved him. You can't expect to be over him like that. You might get some closure if you knew why he broke up with up and the first place. Take it one day at a time, you will meet someone new who is better. Keep your head up.

Answer 4

Well you are gonna eventually feel better as time goes by, no one can tell you to just get over him and then its done, healing takes time. You can try getting out of the house, do things that make you feel happy not things that remind you of him try taking some long walks and figure out what you need in your life to fel better that should help.

Answer 5

I had a bad break up once, I drove all across the east coast by myself. I got over it, moved on and had some fun. I quit my job, left my apartment and took the time to find out what I wanted and now I know what I want and I am about to get it.

Answer 6

get dressed real sexy and go out with the girls and enjoy the males admiring u. turn to ur friends for support and chocolate (not to much). or get a small tub ice cream a blanket and sit back snuggled in and watch the notebook then have a good cry. or start boxing or kick boxing and take it out on the punching bag.

Answer 7

Well, maybe you should talk to him about the situation if you still have feelings for him. But, if you would really like to get over him, then I'm sure as time goes by you will find someone else you feel more attracted to. =]

Answer 8

its easy, go out with friends to keep your mind occupied with something else. Go out and meet new people, sure it hurts but its not the end of the world

Answer 9

First of all grow up,stop whinning, and get a job. There will be many guys in your life. Best of luck to you.

Answer 10

honey, you don't have to be sad because of him. look you're not going to died, but sure it hurts. but with the time you'll forget about him ok? so don't worry i know there is someone else for you.