There is this one guy well my boyfriend w have been going out for 8 months the 20 of this month and he asked me 2 marry him and wants to me to move in with him. He is a really nice guy and all but sometimes he gets 2 carried away with the perverted cracks and he gets way 2 sexual what should i do? comfront him about it? or just let it slide by and let him do whatever till he PO's me 2 much and i leave his @$$?
2006-08-16 15:13:32 · 17 answers · asked by Maggies Mommy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love him and all i give some cracks myself but he just goes to the EXTREME. i love him sooooooooooooo much
2006-08-16 15:22:25 · update #1
we plan on living 2 gether when after we r married which is going 2 be on Christmas of this yr. if i can stay with him and hope he changes. i mean sould i have more faith in him?
2006-08-16 15:24:56 · update #2
i listen 2 my heart but my brain seems 2 kick in at the same time and it makes me start 2 wonder. my heart says go for him and my brain says NO. which should i listen to more my heart or my brain?
2006-08-16 15:34:05 · update #3
dont marry him. he acts to young
2006-08-16 15:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by madchiman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this way before you are even married then I would save my money and find someone new. If he pisses you off that much than you shouldn't even be thinking about spending the rest of your life with him. Listen to your heart.
2006-08-16 22:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and DON'T move in with him unless you are married. Try to get some counselling before getting married if you do decide to take that step. He may not want to marry after you move in.....Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
2006-08-16 22:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by La Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would he know it's inappropriate if you have never said anything? You should speak up if you would like to continue the relationship. Otherwise, don't string him along thinking you are the right girl to marry, just let things go.
2006-08-16 22:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Rexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and he if doesn't changed then break up with him. You an do so much better than that. He's immature and by the sound of it not ready to settle down any time soon.
2006-08-16 22:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to address these issues before moving the relationship further. Otherwise, you may end up in a bad situation that is harder to get out of.
2006-08-16 22:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not marry him under any circumstances, nor should you move in together. You don't even seem to like him all that much. Find someone else.
2006-08-16 22:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to change for you be4 u marry him, if he cant change for u. and u change for him(rite? not sure) then he should also change for u.. try living together be4 marriage, it really cause a lot of problem if u guys havent live together and not used to a guy in the house.. different for everyone. and im glad u got a BF!!! good luck!
2006-08-23 17:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF YOU LOVE HIM I WOULD TELL YOU TO GO WITH HIM BUT TELL HIM YOU DONT LIKE WHEN HE GETS PERVERTED. AND HONEY WHAT DO YOU MEAN HE GETS TO SEXUAL WHEN YOU MOVE IN WITH HIM IF YOU DO I'M SURE YOU'LL BE GETTING SEXUAL SO HOW IS THAT A PROBLEM WHEN HE STOPS BEING SEXUAL THEN START WORRYING
2006-08-16 22:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are sure high maintenance , if that's the worse of a relationship then you don't have anything to worry about. he on the other hand should avoid you like the plague, you will be a pain to live with
2006-08-16 22:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either accpet him as is or move on . are you saving yourself for marriage ? If so take his sexualy overtones as a compliment .If you are not saving yourself for marriage have you had sex with him?If you are having sex with him then you need to toughen yourself up internaly .Maybe hang out with an exibitionist female in your office and recalibrate mentaly just so very slightly .If you have not had sex with him and are not saving yourself for marriage he is sending you make or break signals .
2006-08-16 22:24:22 · answer #11 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋