I'm sorry 2 bother all of u but.. i just need someone to talk to. 1st my boyfriend breaksup with me , Then my grandpa dies.I DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH MORE I CAN TAKE!!! HELLLLLLLLLLLP MEEEEE!!!!!!!
2006-08-16 15:12:15 · 22 answers · asked by Hott_Gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am so sorry to hear about your grandpa. It is very hard when you are grieving...you just cannot get things into prespective.
I know I have been their.
As for your boyfriend.....Try and forget him, move on. Maybe not just yet as you are upset and grieving. He has probably lost a lovely girl and you can do better.
Take care sweetie
Kim
2006-08-16 15:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and take it easy. Your Grandfather comes first. He is gone to heaven. He will keep watch over you, you will understand through time how he remains with you. Memories are the best. In time you will be sayings things like, Remember when Grandpa did this? Remember when he .......? The most wonderful memories remain after you lose a loved one. Do cry it is a part of healing. He may no longer be here but he remains in your heart and memory..
There are so many boys out there. You maybe too young to settle for one. Be thankful he broke up with you and didn't lead you on. It is for the better. I assure you God has a Special person for you and it wasn't him.
I am so sorry of your loss. Prayers will be with you and family.
2006-08-16 22:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of reflecting on what you've lost, focus on what you've gained and what you already have. I hope that you have family and friends that you can turn to during this difficult time. Remember, what goes up must come back down - life is a roller coaster ride filled with ups, downs, twists, and turns. I know it's easier said than done, but try to be positive. I am not a very religious person, but I am a spiritual person and I believe that pray can help you to get through this. Best of luck to you.
P.S. There will be many other boyfriends....I know the first one is hardest to lose, but it will help you to grow for your next love relationship. Keep your chin up :)
2006-08-16 22:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kristmas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered a question earlier about why God makes people suffer. I answered: It's because God tests us. He doesn't do it because he wants, but rather to make us stronger, wiser, and happier. It's how you respond that determines whether you get an "A+" or an "F". Get the A+ that signifies you believe your grandfather is in heaven and is reminding you everything he taught you. And your boyfriend may have secrets that can destroy you. The better guy has probably been at your door this whole time. Welcome him and see how much he'll change your life for the better.
2006-08-16 22:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by artmastercf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st my deepest prayers go to u for the lost of ur grandpa. now this gut girl pick ur head up! he is not the best u can do, god at times remove the negative love in our life so the real love can come around and treat u like the beautiful queen that u r. he was not good enough 4 u. it hurts now but time heals all wounds and deep hidden pain. be happy he is gone cause that new guy will probally be ur mr.right
2006-08-16 22:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have to place ourselves in a position, you've been dumped but their are more fish in the sea, its not the end of the world. Sorry to hear of your pop's passing away but we all do eventually, remember that some where else in the world their is some one in a far worse situation than your self, you could have no arms or legs say, look up 3rd world countries and count your blessings.
2006-08-16 22:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mosez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyyy,
Mi advise wud b just take ur mind of it. Wel where eva ur grandpa is u shud know that he loves u a lot and that hes alwayz wid u. secondly i dont kno u but dont worry u wil find anotha guy, and most prbably he will b beta than this guy.Try 2 avoid seeing him or being anywhere near him.
All da best
2006-08-16 22:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by babi girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As with everything in life, this too shall pass. I'm very sorry to hear of your grandpa's passing. He is now with God and very much at peace. Please take solace in that. As for your ex-boyfriend, consider that an oppurtunity to meet someone new and exciting. I hope all the best for you. God Bless!
2006-08-16 22:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by olebdub 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The boyfriend is replaceable.
Try to settle down so you can be there for your parents. Remember that this is their father, and think how you would feel if your father died and your child was stressing over a stupid boyfriend. Stupid, yes. He broke up with you. Get over it.
2006-08-16 22:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My grandpa told me of this German phrase:
Es geht alles Vorüber. It means "It will pass".
Basically, when you fall on hard times, those times will pass and things will get better. You'll move on and come to terms with your losses.
2006-08-16 22:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by jelzinga95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋