Like ur man has no sex drive ive tried toys, ive tried ignoring him and we've talked about it, but nothing has changed HELP Guys input too
2006-08-16 15:02:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to find out why. You can't just assume he doesn't want sex because he may not like it or whatever. He could just want to wait for religious reasons, or because he wants to be in love, be married, be impotent and be embaryst to tell you.
Don't judge him. Talk with him. If he trust and confides in you then he will be honest. Whatever his reason, take it seriously because he will be.
2006-08-16 15:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by bethizmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some medication. Wal-Mart now has some down the Family Plannin Isle that is supposed to enhance there sex drive and make them stay harder longer. Or, you could try masturbatin' in front of him. I don't know a guy that would turn that site down.
2006-08-16 22:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by lost_carolina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have a insecurity that his performance isn't as good as you may want. Injury, medications (legal or not), work load, emotions, etc. may slow or stop sex drive.
Don't be afraid to use your toys if you ask him and he doesn't comply..... in front of him..... he may change his mind when your halfway through..... let him know in this way that if he doesn't fill your need that you will give his job to a toy .... in other words he knows you aren't going elsewhere to fill your need.
2006-08-16 22:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a guy doesn't want to have sex. Take him to the doctor. I love sex. ANd My fiance' loves it as much as me. When we got together , he couldn't believe my sex drive. He said finally somebody that can go as much as me. And my answer was, yeah, if you can keep up. He is keeping up pretty good. We haven't went a day without sex since we started it.
2006-08-16 22:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you have to understand that sometimes they don't feel like doing it. and it's ok. just wait a couple of days and he will be back in busisness. good luck but if he doesn't find another who can really do it for you
2006-08-16 22:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by Telma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me as soon as he goes to work in the morning as i have a rather HIGH sex drive and will be glad to help him and you out
2006-08-16 22:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be aggressive. Wake him up in the morning with a BJ.
2006-08-16 22:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes stressed, or no long ineterested in you. but i'll tell you, no matter how much i'm NOT in the mood, if someone were to just whip out my unit and put it in their mouth, i woudln't stop them, unless it was a man.....
2006-08-16 22:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you better leave his ***, cause he wont satisfy you sexually and at least you love him enough to struggle with that all your life you better dump him
2006-08-16 22:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by jrod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better do a little investigating and find out where he is getting it , and then kick him in the cajones [balls] ooohhhh !!!!!!? ca-hon-es
2006-08-16 22:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by john l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋