2006-08-16 14:53:52 · 17 answers · asked by Jackie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nothing, just love them and let them know you still need them to be in your life.
2006-08-16 14:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Steve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure this must hurt u deeply, but they are going through somethings right now, they also are worrying about you as wel, because divorce is hard on the kids. Your parents might not go through with it, but you have to try to understand that people do grow apart, things change and sometimes it's for the best to part ways.
I'm sure they both love u dearly, but they're just not in love with each other anymore.
Would you rather they stay together and suffer?
You should talk to them both either together or one on one
to try to make light of whats going on
2006-08-16 22:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear that!! There's nothing you can do. I went through that when I was 9 year's old and I know it's not a easy thing to go through. Just let them know you love them. They will always love you even If they don't stay together. If there not happy with each other there's nothing anyone can do. Don't get to upset it might not happen.
2006-08-16 22:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Linda S 43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do, its there marriage if its time to end it they will know because they have to live it., i am assuming you are a teenager or per-teen, the only thing you can do if they get a divorce is remind both your mother and father that they divorced each other not you and you still love both of your patents and its there responsibility to be a good parent.
2006-08-16 22:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by MYRAJEAN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing. that is their decision. don't think it's your fault and just respect their decision. look at it this way. would you rather have 2 parents under the same roof who fight all the time or parents who live apart and can still be civil (or maybe even friends) to one another? Besides, if they were meant to be together, they will get back together.
2006-08-16 22:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by camilledg127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to take sides. Remember this has nothing to do with you. Your parents surely love you. Talk to them and let them know how you feel. Divorce is not easy and I think it is hardest on the kids. I wish happiness and good luck.
2006-08-16 22:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by Susie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them and remember if your parents do get a divorce it is not about you. It is their problem and you did not cause it. Please remember that even adults, mom's and dad's can say stupid things to eachother. I hope that you always remember that if your parents decide how to treat eachother and that I am sure you are very special to both of them. Sometimes even us adults can act pretty stupid. Good Luck!
2006-08-16 22:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all it i snot your fault. talk to them and tell them how you feel and ask them what life is going to be like for you when they get a divorce-who will you be livign with-when will you see the other parent-ask them why they ar egetting a divorce-have they tried to work it out.
good luck and i hope you are able to walk through this and grow stronger for doing so.
2006-08-16 22:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember you're not the one at fault and there's nothing you can do about it if they do get a divorce. Talk to your school counselor if you're still in school.
2006-08-16 22:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by tkron31 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just try to be supportive of both of them. And maybe give them some space to figure things out
2006-08-16 22:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by littlebiteasier 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for them...Let them know that although they are getting divorced that you will be there for them..and that you love them both very much...Not much else you can do
This is very hard on them so just be yourself and stand beside them
2006-08-16 22:02:56 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋