Porn or Wife?

Question

I have a wife of 10 years. Trust me the hunni has put on about 130 lbs. I would rather masturbate than have sex with her. She is even starting to smell bad. Almost like a piece of pizza hidden in the clothes hamper. When we do it I vomit afterwords. Don't get me wrong I do love that fatty but what should I do?

Answer 1

Go out and f uck her best friend..make a video, and show her what she is missing...

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Damn, just like a guy to put down their wife because of weight gain. What if she put you down because your butt got fat? How would you feel?

Instead of going to porn, which WILL ruin your marriage, you take your wife on moonlit walks. Romantic, YES, but also a method to the maddness...it's exercise. Start with a short 20 minute walk...ten minutes up and back, then sweet talk her into a little longer, and then a little longer walk.

Remember, you've got to motivate her into wanting to do this, but motivate her with love. Be romantic, leave notes on her pillow. Why? Because you being romantic will make her feel good about herself again. If she feels great about herself, then she'll want to look and feel her best, which means...loosing weight for her health. (always for her health...remember that..it's caring and makes her understand you love her)

Make her dinner, that way you know she's eating more healthy. Use veggies. Talk to her about your concerns about her health due to her weight. Let her know you're willing to do this with her, support her, don't belittle her.

The pizza smell could be a sign of a yeast infection, which she should check into. The body itself, not just the vagina, can harbor yeast. A way around this is a simple after bath splash of apple cider vinager. It will kill the yeast. (I've a friend who's neice is very over weight 300 pounds or a bit more, and has the same problem)

Look up on the internet at google.com on how to kill body yeast. And make sure she sees a dr. also on it. Just tell her that before the diet she should get a checkup. While she's got her attention elsewhere, get a chance to tell the dr. what you're noticing too. That way, he can slip in a check without her feeling that you're hounding her.

If you do this gently, you'll get her back to a healthier weight. If you really care about her, you'll give her the support she needs and you'll watch how you handle this delicate situation.

Answer 4

Do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING you can to boost her self esteem. Maybe she is suffering from an undiagnosed case of depression. Why don't you help by eating healthier foods with her and doing some physical activities like light exercises....

Also you could buy her some nice things to pamper her. Go to the mall with her and have her get her hair done. Buy her some shower gel in a scent you like or some bath gel. Pick out a special fragrance for her and a comfortable yet attractive nightgown for her so she feels feminine again.

Just because she gained weight doesn't mean you need to give up on her and resort to porn...she obviously needs some love and attention from you.

Answer 5

If you are capable of talking diplomatic and sensitive, then you need to explain your wife that her weight gain is a turn off for you. You could start out by telling her all the good stuff about herself and that you love her, but then steer to the point of her weight gain without being insulting. If she isn't the person you fell in love with, then understandably it turns you off, but, do not forget that you might have changed in looks as well. Plus, do not forget that some treatments for illnesses do cause people to gain weight, in particular stereoids and cortisone(Asthma, etc.). So if your wife is on some sort of treatment, you need to abstain from trying to talk to her.

You could offer your wife to go through any diet with her and encourage her to go exercise with you, there are lots of ways to talk to your wife in a loving manner. I do not think that what you wrote there was very nice, I mean, why call her fatty if you lofe her? So I guess, the best I can tell you is what I told you and hopefully you find a nice way to talk to her and help her - because most men forget that over time they gain a lot of weight too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

Despite her gaining 130 lbs you still love her huh?? Well honestly, if you really loved her you wouldn't talk about her in the manner that you are doing so. As people, we all gain weight, get grey hair, etc... but when you get married, one of the vows you take says "for better or worse" nobody said "for better or worse as long as you don't gain weight". If you want her to lose weight then instead of "bashing" her you should help her and maybe exercise with her and eat the right kind of foods with her. I am almost positive that you don't look the same way that you did when you first met her; maybe you have a beer belly? or maybe grey hair or maybe even balding a little, but despite that she is not on here saying "every time I look at his bald head I to buff it and make it shiny" and she is not saying "damn my husband looks like he is about to give birth to triplets." Give her a break, help her instead of patronizing her.

Answer 7

She deserves your honesty, more than your fidelity. If you can't tell her the things you said about her, how would she be able to improve herself.

Tell her it would be nicer if she lose some weight. You might as well join her in the gym. You may also suggest cholesterol-free meal that you two will share. Also, buy her EXPENSIVE PERFUMES!!! pamper her, in that way, she will realize she needs to pamper herself,too. Make her feel important. Buy her nice clothes. You can help her bring out the sexiness she once had 10 years ago.

Answer 8

Wow, what an interesting predicament. Maybe you should kill yourself. It seems apparent that you have nothing to live for. Christ, you don't even respect your wife or yourself anymore. Listen friend, the world does not need another fat complacent loser masturbating to pornography and wishing that his wife was an *** taking whore. Honestly, you must end your life. You have been married to her for ten years and all you can think to tell the world is how fat she is and how you would "rather masturbate than have sex with her." Kill yourself, it is the only way.

I hate you.

Answer 9

Work on some kind of exercise program for both of you, but make it not seem like exercise. And work on a healthier diet. This will take some time. But if you stick to it , it will pay off. And in the mean time, use the porn.

Answer 10

Remember what goes around comes around ? she might have some adverse feelings for you that are a contributing factor to her problems?? like do yu have kids?? do yu help?? maybe she is so tired she cant take time for herself??she has some problems and yu are supposed to stand by and help her?? not badmouth and talk trash behind her back. seems you have a low esteem or personality quirks that tend to make yu think yu are better?? or better looking?? grow up and get a sack be a man and help your lady!

Answer 11

oh i think you have a hard situation to deal with and i can see why you choose masterbation and think she ls lucky you do this instead of cheat on her. can you talk to her or would it hurt to much because it sure sounds like you are in a lot of turmoil over this. can you get her feinds to talk to her or her mother, and does she have a medical problem that has caused her to gain weight. maybe she needs a medical check up because being fta and smellin gbad sounds like there may be something medically wrong. i wish you luck and hope it all turns out good for everyone involved.