have u ever felt like giving up?

Question

have u ever felt like just giving up on life, like nobody loves u. thats the way i feel right now

Answer 1

Doesn't everybody? Because people can't have things handed to them on a silver platter, they want to give up. Because they have a couple punches thrown at them without any warning, they want to give up. The thing is, there's always someone out there who is struggling with someone more severe than you so appreciate the life that you have. No life is going to be perfect. Sure, some people may have it better than you but what good does it do to have an easy life? What do you learn from that? Not a thing. When you struggle, you learn how to perservere and how to handle things so that the next time they come around, it's that much easier to get past it the second time. To take your mind off of whatever is stressing you out or upsetting you, do something you enjoy. It's always nice to think about something else.

Answer 2

I think everyone has felt like that at one point or another. I know I have and I'm perfectly normal. I know many friends that have. It just depends on what phase in life you are in and the attitude you have towards it. I don't know any details about your situation but if you are in school and things are not right, married and not going well, divorcing, etc....it all takes time to heal. We all have to go through these things in life. BUT attitude plays a big part. Find a hobby that you enjoy or something to get you over the hump. If you are in school, talk to a teacher or focus on your studies, etc. Give it some time....we've all been there and it always gets better!!!

Answer 3

Awwww... chin up, wiggle your toes, and make silly faces till you crack a smile. Or something.
lol
I know how you feel, and yes, I do feel that way sometimes too. Life sucks sometimes, but if you just keep doing (or at least attempting to) do the next right thing, you will eventually get where you want to go. It may seem slow at times, but you have to hang on to all the small things in life that bring a smile to your face or give you hope for the day. It makes the mountains turn into mole hills, and the next thing you know, you are on your way to better things!!!
Like, just being ABLE to wiggle your toes is a good enough reason to be thankful to be alive today, ya know? Or seeing some beautiful wild flowers along the road, waking up just to see the morning sunrise once in a while, spending time with your dog (if you have one), watching kids play so innocently at a park (climb on the monkey bars just for the fun of it), taking a drive just because you want to see something you haven't noticed before, calling up an old friend you haven't spoken to in years, pack your lunch & go on a picnic, go to the pet shelter just to pet the dogs locked in cages, smile & wave at a stranger, call up a family member just to say hi (it may shock them, but it will probably make thier day - lol), start doing a jigsaw puzzle, go to the library & read for a couple of hours there, go to an ice skating or roller rink just to see if you can still skate, count your teeth, write a poem (a happy one to cheer you up), get a gym membership, go get some fresh lemons, squeeze them, add some water & sugar, and enjoy some real lemonade....
Do things just for the experience of doing them. You may be surprised how good it feels and who knows, you just may crack a smile.
; )

Answer 4

Of course. Everybody has felt that way. But you get over it. You can't give up, you just keep going and things will work out. You will be happy and in Love. And you will so much joy in your life you will want to share it with everyone.

Answer 5

Sometimes. I think it's only human to feel that way every once in awhile. But you can't let that get you down. Whenever you feel that way, you have to stop and really think of all the people/things in your life that may seem insignificant, but really make up your life and who you are. That will give you the strength to keep going.

Answer 6

Been there, done that, many times. Even to the point of suicide. First, there are people who love you, right now, in your life. Second, there are people who love you that you haven't met yet, and you'll meet them. Third, pray to God for help, He will. Fourth, get rid of the negative attitude, black attracts black, white, white, and I'm not talking about skin color. Talk to your parents, they know more about life than you do, or talk to a friend. Trust me, IT DOES GET BETTER, when you least expect it. Don't dwell on it

Answer 7

It's just a human thing. You'll feel better tomorrow. Don't let your mind take it seriously because it will get worse. Just think when you wake up, you'll feel refreshed. If you have feeling like that for a while and it is not going away, then you need to go see someone like a counselor. Good luck.

Answer 8

i have felt like that many times in my 40 some years, but i realize life is what i make of it and i am my best friend and i do love myself enough not to let stupid things get me down. things like relationships,family,money,car trouble,friends,on and on. i get depressed so i go out into the woods and take in natures beauty and the peacefulness and it always make me feel better,God does love you and we are here for a reason,ours is partly to learn how to over come our negative feelings and deppresion.

Answer 9

Sure when I was going thru a divorce.

Well I have to tell you, you are wrong. There are people that care about you. I don't know you, but I care that you keep yourself safe. Its a big world, lots of people, get out and get a hobby going, one that is not an indoor one. You will make more friends, and you will see you are a likeable person.

Answer 10

I have felt that way but the best thing to do is to hang out with freinds to distract yourself (in a way) and just wait it out because you will feel loved again and it will get better

-Haley