hi i try to get a girl freind but it never works i ask a girl out they have a bf or they think i am ugly but girls tell me i am cute hot sexy and stuff but they couldnt never go out with me i dont get it i want a girl freind but i am so shy i cant even look them in the eyes :( can some one help
2006-08-16 14:28:08 · 6 answers · asked by kyle l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kyle, stop trying and it will happen. Talk with a girl you know has some of the values, interests - and maybe even shyness - that you would want to take out and after a few brief encounters, ask her. Girls do need to trust you. And, if a girl doesn't care who/what you are, she could be a big problem. Guys don't take the time to assess/figure out a girl and they jump in and give it all up the first encounter. You aren't ugly dude, you just lack confidence and experience talking with other people with no thought of a sexual encounter. Get out of yourself and let people know the cuteness of your character and personality. Offer to help a girl if you see she is struggling, etc. After class, walk alongside a nice girl and ask if she understood the assignment and if so, could she find time in the day to help you. Do not make a move during the time she helps you. Relationships build. Horniness is too apparent and it attracks only the other sexually needy.
Oh, by the way, almost all of the other guys in your school have the same insecurities but they are used to risk taking and they may or may not score a decent date.
2006-08-16 14:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I where you i would focus on just talking to them.I say this because if you talk to at least 100 women you might sleep with one of them.
Also you shouldnt be to upset about not having a girlfriend because if you date enough women you will find that most women out there are not worth having as girlfriends.date a few women and you will get a better idea of what Im talking
2006-08-16 14:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by ccameronbeaty78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and be yourself, and learn to make eye contact that is important in any relationship. good luck.
2006-08-16 14:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want impatiently girlfriend...
2015-10-22 04:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by reza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get one then
2006-08-16 14:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hallo!how old are you?
2006-08-19 09:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by badu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋