How would you feel if your boyfriend was working in a strip club, not dancing! but as a waiter? would you be cool 'cause its just a job or would you feel upset/insecure etc because theres lots of naked girls and they are simulating sex etc etc in front of him?
2006-08-16 14:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because its a job doesn't mean its a good job. Having a job at a strip club would obviously make anyone feel insecure or at least should. There are plenty of jobs and being a waiter at a strip club obviously gives guys a much better opportunity to meet other girls. A lot of guys gets horny when there's stripping or something that has to do with sex involved so i wouldn't trust the guy if he says he's just gonna get a job there as a waiter.
2006-08-16 14:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by aznangel5492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, working in a strip club as a waiter is as boring as working anywhere else as a waiter. You have nothing to worry about.
2006-08-16 21:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally wouldnt like it because it seems like it would be a bit tempting (not saying he will cheat) but there are other jobs out there for him to work at...and if he gets mad that you dont like that he works there be like well would you like it if i worked as a waiter in a male strip club? and im sure he would agree that there are better jobs lol
2006-08-16 23:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by blurred_memories09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I trust my boyfriend and he was always honest and upfront about everything, than no I wouldn't have a problem with it at all. But if he lies and I do not trust him than I would have a problem. Plus he is a waiter and it's not like he will be showing his goodies to anyone.
2006-08-16 21:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that i would like it, but trust is all you need and if he hasent given you anything to betray your trust, then i wouldnt worry to much.... dont let you imagination run away with you, because, those girls. its just a job also, and they will also have parteners,husbands, kids at home waiting for them... the old saying You can look, but dont touch, he probably hasen:t got time to look anyway. so cheer up.
2006-08-20 17:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be okay with it. However, my sister is dating a guy who DJ's at a strip club and he has cheated on her a countless number of times with the strippers. (he was caught) Now I don't think I'd be okay with it. lol
2006-08-16 21:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tamara.. if you have to ask then you think it's not right. Tell him you don't like it. Be open and honest. There are plenty of other jobs he can do. good luck xxx
2006-08-16 21:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Chrisey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be kinda odd, and i would confront him about it, but if he said it was just a job, id probably belive him, but wathc for things out of the usual
2006-08-16 21:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could definately find a job elsewhere.
2006-08-16 21:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your asking other peoples opinions so its clear that u have an issue about it. talk to him and tell him be straight and honest thought. he will admire your honesty. good luck girlie :)
2006-08-20 10:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by logsy_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋