I just found out that my boyfriend, is actually a woman.....im scared, because it didnt feel any different.....I still love him, i mean her....but i dont know how to break it off with her....weve been going out for 3 years now, and i never noticed...I FEEL LIKE AN IDIOT! Im mad at the fact that it took her so long to tell me....WHAT DO I DO? WHAT DO I SAY? HOW DO I HANDLE THIS?
2006-08-16 14:21:55 · 30 answers · asked by Becky♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think they came out with a movie like that. Maybe you could watch it and get some tips. SHE'S THE MAN!
2006-08-16 14:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie Rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you this only your heart can make that decision for you she was wrong for not telling you you didn't see the signs such as won't undress in front of you always want the lights off when you make love and you never shower together or took a bath so you never seen the signs or you ignore them calm down and talk with her sound like she was afraid to tell you ask her why she didn't tell you and tell her you need a little space and if she asked if you are breaking up tell her you don't know cause she is hurt to she should have told you a long time ago before it became this serouis but only you can make this decision good luck
2006-08-16 21:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there are so many ppl who are transvestite, for example my uncle was born a male but now he's a she, and the women HE at the time married to, divorced him and she couldn't handle the fact that she has to spend the rest of her life with a woman, but I mean.. my uncle is still an uncle even now that he is a her, I still call him uncle. You just have to get used to the fact that your boyfriend is a She. I mean.. you have been with him well her for 3 years after all..I really don't know how to suggest how to break up with him...(her), but I mean it takes that long for him to tell you, it's hard.. he told you about it because he feels like he can trust you and accept for who he is you know?
2006-08-16 21:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I agree with some of the other ppl. This person could be very dangerous, s/he could also be a lesbian that loves u vry much and was waiting to see if u loved him/her enough no matter what sex she was bfor s/he told u. May be s/he is a lesbian and didn't know how 2 find another lesbian so that's y s/he did that.One last thing, y did u not notice 'till now???
2006-08-16 21:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by ALB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him/her If you still love him than you should stay with him because there is no way you are going to find someone else that you love so much! It doesn't matter if he/she had a sex change you have to think to the only reason it took him so long was because it was hard for him to tell you and he didn't know how you would reacted but He told you because he loves you and doesn't want anything to come inbetween you two so I think You should really stay with him!!!!!
2006-08-16 21:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that ***** was a girl god i mean you'd think i'd notice when we were .......um nvm but yea i wondered why he had a bra in his drawer god he was so hott since u want to break up with him i guess its not as bad that i've been sleeping with him and he's the love of my life and no one can take that from us he's such a guy
that whole women thing is a typical guy thing to do gosh whore.
2006-08-17 23:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by ♦Fabio♦ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that is the worst form of betrayal ever, I have no clue. For me it would be pack my bags and get the fu ck out of dodge time. You aren't in love with him ( that obviously was a lie, sad but true) You should move on for real. Who is he? You don't really know, he could be a serial killer for all you know. Act normal, be normal, be quick and get out leave no trace behind! Good Luck with that too.
2006-08-16 21:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question can't be real.
How after 3 years could you have not known? Were you waiting for marriage before doing any type of fooling around? Even without sex... come on!
2006-08-16 21:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, 3 years, you're either incredibly dense or a wonderful storyteller. If by some remote chance you're serious, just tell her that you wish she had been honest with you and threaten to send her your therapy bill.
2006-08-16 21:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would contact the police right away because this could be a bad situation to be dealing with yourself.But,i wouldnt want to do that so i would call this person and ask them their whole life story!.....good luck.........if i were u id break up....pretty wierd!
2006-08-16 21:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by Laxchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋