What if I contact him more than he contacts me, (not like a stalker, just a little more, than him) will he be turned off?
2006-08-16 14:08:42 · 13 answers · asked by J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not at all....we like hearing from the woman.....hard to get usually is good for like a day.....but after that you're probably gonna lose us quick out of a misunderstanding of what is going on.
2006-08-16 14:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've got something to get probably, but it sounds like you're ignoring whether he wants what you've got or not, that is the classic mistake, you have to be a good match and want what each other has got to give more or less equally.
Just keep trying, but don't try to hard because that is a turn off, for jobs as well.
2006-08-16 21:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy, some like it while others don't, but in general it's fine as long as it's not overdone. Contacting him more shows your interest, again it's good as long as it's not too much (more than twice or thrice a day is probably not a good idea, although I personally wouldn't mind it).
2006-08-16 23:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play to hard he will get tried of it and move on. that is the problem, there is a careful balance.
But in my view... playing hard to get is a little irritating. I prefer women to just be straight forward.
2006-08-16 21:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jon H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are just as shy and would appreciate a girl who talks to them first. Go for it! That's how I met my husband.
2006-08-16 21:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The number of contacts doesn't matter. It's what you say that matters.
Keep it light and flirtatious. Tease him to please him. Don't be a heavy (until you have kids).
2006-08-16 21:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and don't "play" anything. "Playing" will definitely chase off a guy.
2006-08-16 21:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope it just pisses us off and we lose interest. Just be forward thats whats hot
2006-08-16 21:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Evasive tactics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself if you see he is not contacting you then leave him alone.
2006-08-16 21:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fo sho
2006-08-16 21:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by UdontKNOW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋