I went out on a date with a bigger girl..she ended up eating more at the buffet than I did...so should she pay the bill? I paid last night, but I will see her tonight, should I ask her for meal money?
2006-08-16 13:58:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The girl should take responsibility for her eating habits. It is not good for her health because she already has a lot of weight. Neither you nor she can afford to pay so much money for dining out. Unfortunately, you would not want to offend her. The good news is that men no longer have to pay for all the expenses every time they date a woman. Women earn more money today than in the past. Do no be afraid to agree with her ahead of time on financial matters. Let her know how much you are willing to pay for her. Isn't she obligated to contribute financially as well?
2006-08-16 14:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by metallica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, would you be asking this question if the girl had been skinny? Second, the more you eat at a buffet, the more you are going to get your money's worth. Third, I think if the guy wants to present himself as a gentleman, he should always offer to pay. If she takes the bill from you and demands to pay it, let her, otherwise, be the bigger person. Sorry, had to throw that in. LOL
2006-08-16 21:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by turtle33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be harsh, but your the man of the relationship so you need to take control. You should tell your girlfriend at the begining of the date that you don't want the bill to be too high so you guys need to be caareful on how much you order. This tells your girlfriend in a respectful way that she needs to order less. If this doesn't work you need to tell your girlfriend that she should order less that way she won't get tired the rest of the time you guys aer out. This might be a little lie, but again, it will tell your girlfriend that she should order less without hurting her feelings.
Your Friend, B.D.P, aka Black Doctor Phil
2006-08-16 21:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by Black Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, oh my gosh, what happened to MANNERS and being a gentleman? Were you really thinking about walking up to her and demanding money for last night's dinner?
Did you ask her out, or did she ask you? The way I see it, whoever asked pays; that, or you split it. It's not determined by who eats more.
2006-08-16 21:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by audio♥panic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear that!!! One time I took a girl out too Ponderosa and she cleaned out everything but the salad bar. I reluctently paid but ever since that day I've wondered ??? Should I have made that obesce girl pay??? I think so, but i doubt she could of got to her purse because she was surronded by riggatonies. Please Please don't make the same mistake I did. Please join are club bigjay@antiheffer.com
2006-08-16 21:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by B Rad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was a buffet, dufus. One price no matter how much you eat. Someone needs to clue her in that you are a scarecrow (if I only had a brain.........)
2006-08-16 21:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest splitting the bill.
2006-08-16 21:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by renee1724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anytime you go on a date it should be paid for by her. never waste money liike that.
2006-08-16 21:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real man is suppose to pay
2006-08-16 21:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by tcm. :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your kidding right! No..you have to apy buddie..so who cares if she ate more than you did...
2006-08-16 21:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋