Scanerio - You eye a pretty girl in the bar. After eye contact and a brief 40 mins chat u leave her ur number for her to contact u if she likes u or not (as she is to cute to give her number 2 u in case your a serial killler) then u leave her the option of letting her contact or txt u...she txts the following day and few days to my amazment, and says that she is busy at work ands is goin on hols for 12 days ... she txts every once i a while and says she will meet for coffee when she gets time after her hols.... Do I wait patatiently or go..? .
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Thnks 2 all thoz who hv helpd so far,,
2006-08-16 13:46:44 · 18 answers · asked by MJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go. its so ******* obvious. **** off with the dilemma
2006-08-16 13:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Chriatian IV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can wait patiently, since you don't really have a choice. But that's not saying you have to just sit and twiddle your thumbs until she contacts you. Meantime, do your thing -- go out, have fun, meet other girls. Eventually, she might call if she feels like it, but if not -- at least you haven't been wasting time waiting on her.
2006-08-16 13:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait. She is continuing to show interest in you by texting you. That means you are still on her mind and she is willing to meet up with you. Respond to the text messages she sends you and I am sure when she gets back you two will be meeting.
2006-08-16 14:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun while you wait for her to make some time... she has been contacting you, so she is showing some interest, but still live your life. Don't place it on hold. When she makes the time to see you then go for it.
2006-08-16 13:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't wait for 12 days to meet someone for coffee then your obviously not terribly attracted to her.
2006-08-16 17:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by CeeVee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing it really cool but sounds like she is definitely interested if she is texting you. I would carry on doing what you are doing, go out with your mates and enjoy life. If she texts again and asks to meet you then meet her.
2006-08-16 13:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, but don't wait. I mean if you meet someone new, then go for it. If you don't meet anyone new then that's ok too. Just don't let her know that you are waiting but not really.
2006-08-16 13:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say wait!...she's letting you know she's busy right now...but wants to meet you again...if she wasn't interested she wouldn't have contacted you...
2006-08-16 13:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that would all depend on how interested you are in her. If you wanna make a go at it, then wait. If your not all that interested then go on with life.
2006-08-16 13:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said rather you have already had a date with her or not, so you don't even know If you are a match, I say Move on.
2006-08-16 13:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by totalyclipse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and if she's not wroth it then go get another girl. That's the right thing to do.
2006-08-16 13:53:03 · answer #11 · answered by alcdances4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋