I did ask this girl out who told me that was seeing someone. She claimed that I was too slow in asking her out. Anyways, it turns out that she broke up her boyfriend. She called me that it just occured. I have a feeling that there is room for me. I still have my doubts as to whether to go for it or not. Note: she thinks I have a girlfriend but I really don't I feel like she's want to date me now bcos she just broke the old relationship. I am in a limbo here. please advice me, well meaning yahoo folks. Thanks.
2006-08-16 13:39:53 · 16 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants you as a rebound.
2006-08-16 13:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not go out with this girl. She is still grieving over the loss of her old relationship. She is feeling alone right now and she wants someone to keep her company. There is a huge difference between wanting company and wanting to start a serious relationship but honestly most girls get these two things confused! You will get hurt. I can see it because you care for this girl on a level she is not yet at. You need to give her time to get over the end of her relationship and then pursue her. Doing that would be in your best interest.
2006-08-16 20:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, especially if she called you and told you she just broke up. She's probably giving you the hint to ask her out. If she really isn't giving you a hint, you won't know unless you ask her. Whats the real harm in asking her anyway? Loosing her friendship? If you don't ask her and she goes out with a guy she later wants to marry, you'll be loosing much of your friendship to her anyways because she'll be spending all her time with her new guy. So you might as well see if you can be her new guy first. It might lead to some hot and meaningful times that you don't want to miss. Or maybe not, but you won't know unless you do it.
Hope that helps.
2006-08-16 20:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you are you are in a relationship and you're having doubts all the time. there is a problem somewhere.if you like her you would give some space, when she is ready she will let you know. stay in limbo so you want get hurt. unless you are a player.
2006-08-16 21:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by zerrick_king@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortune favors the bold. Sitting around being timid will get you no where. Either go for it or quit thinking about her. But sitting in limbo will not get anything done.
2006-08-16 20:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by dalewayward 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually a girl tells a guy she broke up a relationship either
a) She like you, therefore ask her out
b) she thinks you are a friend, therefore ask her out to "console her sorrows, and be the hot caring friend.
2006-08-16 20:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by tdm511 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys play too many mind games. Make up your minds, get rid of the drama and it'll be smooth sailing.
2006-08-16 20:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date...one date doesn't mean your a couple...take it from there and see what happens...
2006-08-16 20:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm in going for a drink, but don't let her play you around. Keep it cool and slightly distant.
2006-08-16 20:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by puzzledfemale! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get it if it does not work out than so what you had a good time
2006-08-16 20:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by letsplaynlasvegas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and knock you off a piece. that is what she wants after a break up
2006-08-16 20:43:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋