2006-08-16 13:30:59 · 17 answers · asked by fruityboy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
If your wife is a virgin, it doesn't say much for you. Musta been a boring wedding night.
Really, I doubt that anyone other than a medical professional will get the variety of training and experience to really know what to look for, without being arrested for child molestation.
And I know of someone who got "popped" by a gynecological instrument because it didn't occur to the doctor that a 19-yo might still be a virgin... Nowadays, lack of bleeding in an older female doesn't mean anything. Either she's lying through her teeth and afraid of rejection, or fooling herself, or you're very suspicious.
Sounds like the old joke on the wedding night:
"Do you know what this is, dear?"
"It's your wee-wee"
"No, dear, it called a penis."
"Oh, no it's not - I've seen lots of penises and that one's a wee-wee!"
2006-08-16 13:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i heard there is a special "seal" that's broken if she's had sex.....gynecologists would know if she's a virgin or not....i'm not sure if they can legally tell you...but if there are corrupt ones that work on your wife than maybe.....
but you should be able to trust her if she's your wife and trust her answer
as an 18 year old guy (that's a virgin) i can't really go in depth on those body parts and explain what the seal is but i've heard that there is one that gets broken after intercourse
2006-08-17 03:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by Yogaflame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth are you asking this in the "grade-schooler" category? As for your question, there is no way to know except that you just trust her. All those old wives' tales about how to tell if a woman has had sex are hogwash... including "blood on the sheets."
I didn't bleed at all the first time I had sex. NOT EVERYONE BLEEDS!! It also didn't really hurt much. I am so sick of people believing these lies. My ex-fiance happened to be someone who was an @ss about it too. He didn't believe that I was a virgin because I didn't bleed. Please don't be an idiot like him...
2006-08-16 17:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first time you have sex, she should bleed because of her hymen breaking. Of course, this isn't actually a reliable method, because not all women bleed when their hymen breaks.
The only other way you can tell is for her to have an examination by a doctor who will be able to tell if she is a virgin. But that's only if you haven't consumated your marriage yet.
I do wonder why you're asking such a strange question though.
2006-08-16 13:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by RSJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a look, if you are familiar with it then you will know. if not then get a book on human anatomy , open to chapter 3 page 246 and see image number 120. but sorry i forgot the name of the book.
2006-08-16 13:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Rolly r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fruityboy, you sound fruity all right. What a dumb question. If you're fruity do you even have a wife? Maybe your wife is a dude?
2006-08-16 13:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm going to take it as if you have not got married yet and you are unsure take her word if and when you have sex she how she acts if she jump and say wait then she is if she she just sit there she just have not done it in a while
2006-08-18 12:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? If she's your wife, then she shoudn't be a virgin. Unless you never consummated your marriage
2006-08-16 13:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this now, you are a little late. Try asking her. If she says yes, I'd go with it. If you love her enough to marry her, it shouldn't matter anyway.
2006-08-16 13:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by silentmonkeybone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well once you sleep together that should be evident. Isnt that something you should have discussed prior to marriage?
2006-08-17 10:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by ~Mother Of Angels~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋