My girlfriends tell me Im atractive, ok cool, I stay active so Im in good shape, I guess I dress ok, Im educated(I think???) yet, I cant seem to find anyone. Its not a plea for help or anything, I just want an honest womens opinon.
2006-08-16 13:28:43 · 15 answers · asked by Bobby the WOOD Heenan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do talk about what your girlfriends tell you about you....so it is not a problem for you to find someone, it seems more a problem of sustaining a relationship and that can have millions of reasons. No amount of advice or good meaning tips can help if one doesn't know what the problem really is. So I assume that the problem is communication--between you and her. It could also be that there are expectations on both sides which no one wants to talk about(sex). Or you simply pick the wrong ones all the time....meaning you look in all the wrong places.
The best opinion I could give you here is what I mentioned above, and guess what? All 3 are coming down to one thing: communication. Who is she, what does she like, what does she expect from you, what do you expect from her etc.etc. People do not want to talk about expectations, money, and sex, but those are the 3 things that make or break a relationship. So use the time at hand to get to know you, and do not worry too much about finding someone. Because sometimes we pick hastily because we do not want to be alone and later on we regret this. Good Luck
2006-08-16 13:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're well educated and look good is nice and all; that's not all there is to a relationship. I'm not saying you didn't know that, just wanted to start off with that. Ever thought that you just haven't found the right girl yet? That's not to say you won't find her, just that you haven't found her 'yet'. I hope you don't get too discouraged. It'll happen.
2006-08-16 13:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are good looking,sexy and smart,and have money then the only thing that must be missing is a good personality,are you coming on strong enough or are you kinda shy,women like a man that takes control
2006-08-16 13:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...You might need to look a little closer at your friends...cause a good friendship makes for a great relationship! I know from experience. Also,how are you flirting skills? Try some diffrent techniques....But ,most of all...Just be patient ..Good Things Are Worth Waiting For!!! Good Luck,buddy!
2006-08-16 13:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by mrssmokestack003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading this forum you would think the world was full of girls looking for boyfriends and vice versa. You only need to put yourself out there more. Be more social, join clubs, tell people you know you're looking, go on blind dates ... you'll be surprised how fast you'll be snapped up.
2006-08-16 13:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're looking in the wrong places for a nice lady.
Seems like you have what a good lady would want.
2006-08-16 13:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
physical attributes & good education are not all that women want. are you sweet & a very gentle man? do you have good humor? sit back and evaluate your self. better observe your friends who have girlfriends. it won't hurt to ask some male dating advice too.
2006-08-16 13:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe yr just looking to hard. slow down and enjoy life and youll someone special will come yr way one day. dont be in such a hurry. for more dating and relationship tips check out his site
2006-08-16 13:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask your girlfriends, they know you more than any of these people on here. Ask them if they'd date you....see what they have to say.
2006-08-16 13:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by Isabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for it, let it come to you. You can't push things like that, you just have to let nature take its course.
2006-08-16 13:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by renee1724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋