I am a mother of 3 kids. their dad and i have been together for 6 years now. we always fight he is controlling and he can be violent. am i doing the right thing staying with him for the sake of our kids. or should i get out.
2006-08-16 13:23:29 · 12 answers · asked by sandra b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get the hell out!!!!!!!!!!!!
There is no reason to stay is there????????????????
Those kids and yourself don't need that sh**!!
Call your local police and they will advi\se you.
PLEASE don't stay there!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your safey and the kids should be your number one concern!
PLEASE GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111111
2006-08-16 13:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sista....children would rather come from a broken home then be in one. Just the fact that you sit here and ask that question puzzles me. You should get out ..faster then you can say bah bye. Get yourself prepared and leave him before he hurts you, your children, or far worse kills someone.
You are not being loved you are being hurt. You are sending the wrong message to your children that will hurt them into adulthood and into their own relationships.
6 years is long enough to endure this treatment wouldn't you agree? Then what are you waiting for? If you feel he might harm you or the children if you leave then put an action plan together at once. Call your local police department and contact a battered women's shelter at once. Alert your family or better yet go stay with them. Now is the time for a new beginning now go make it happen!
2006-08-16 13:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes hitting u get out.my mom was in an abusive realtionship and now she is dating some one really good for her.dont stay with him because of the kids one day he may turn his violence towards ur children or hurt u so bad u end up in the hospital like my mom.dont try to find an excuse to stay with him.nobody should be in an abusive relationship.
2006-08-16 13:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer_ramos253 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and take the kids. I stayed in a relationship because of my son and now he is only 17 and is in rehab and has emotional problems.
2006-08-16 13:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by gee-geeofmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT! It would be like my mother staying with her abusive boyfriends. AND it DID take a toll on my sister and i. Your kids might later on be in relationships like yours because that's all they see and it's learnt behavior so they'll think it's ok to treat a woman/partner that way or be treated that way.
by you taking a stand it will show them a whole lot, and that it's not ok for anyone to be that way and for anyone to be treated that way.
2006-08-16 13:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by What!? No Way!? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is violent then it's time to leave. Your hurting your self and you kid's more if you stay. You need to get out and go some were safe. Trust me your kid's will still love you if you and them left. Mine do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-16 13:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by fly30blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should get out if he's abusing u. don't stay anywhere if u don't feel loved with that person. y'all will still have communication with each other because y'all have children together. do what's best for both u and your children and make sure he is there to support the children if u decide to leave him.
2006-08-16 13:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by hotgurl 04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is violent then you should leave as soon as possible...
do you think a violent man is a good role model for your children.? what if he would get violent with them? what if he gets so violent that he kills you (it happens all the time). try googling "house of ruth", they can also help you with legal aspects of this situation.
2006-08-16 13:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by realgirl768553 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kids are seeing this and they will be doing the same as they see!!! Seek help and find a way out!!! For the kids and you!!!!
2006-08-16 13:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out - fast - for te sake of your kids and yours
2006-08-16 13:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***,you are not doing your children any favors at all by staying with him,in fact you are hurting them more,dont you think they deserve better than this and so do you
2006-08-16 13:28:35 · answer #11 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋