What do you like in a girl? I'm really hardcore goth and have a strong personality but a lot of guys have told me I'm too much for them to handle. Would you date a girl like me? Only honest answers please. I don't want no one lying.
2006-08-16 13:21:09 · 17 answers · asked by Gothic_Maiden 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow u sound like my dream girl but yeh i like rock music i aint goth but still get along great with them i love dragons i like cooking and i read fictional books on the occasion so my perfect gf would have to be something like me
2006-08-16 13:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by teenchatter10 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The strong personality is not a problem...that's an asset, in fact. The hardcore goth thing is intriguing, but it's hard to figure out how you fit in to that style, and the few goths I've known never seemed to be too receptive to questions...so I have always just wondered from a distance instead. That's about as honest as I can be on that subject. But I'm sure if a guy could figure out how to get in where he fit in, he'd waste no time trying to get at you. Good luck.
2006-08-16 20:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strong personality isn't bad, but the fact that you label youself as goth is a little bit of a turn off. Not because it's goth, but because you label yourself as something. Almost like you want the approval of a larger group.
I love punk music, but if I labelled myself as 'punk', I might as well label myself as a lemming.
2006-08-16 20:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by jjpeach 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should ask out the guys who interest you. In high school and college I didn't date. Being rejected hurt me really badly, so I hardly ever asked anybody, and the women I asked turned me down.
I always felt out on the fringe of things - like everyone but me knew who was dating who, and who was available.
So sure. You may be too much for some guys to handle. Some guys may be too much for you to handle. And there will be guys you don't like the looks of, and there will be guys who don't like your looks.
That doesn't mean you should change - it just means you haven't met the right guy yet.
2006-08-16 20:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I like girls who are confident in who they are, smart, and beautiful on the inside and out. I'm not really into goth chicks cuz most of them are really nice but seem to have issues with their pairents. Just take it easy. you got your hole life in front of you. Date lots of guys and figure out what YOU want and don't worry about what they are looking for.
2006-08-16 20:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Ttuff 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u dont look like a goth girl by your avatar, but ive learned that girls like that are the most sensitive and emotional, they just dont show it. So i guess i wouldnt mind dating a girl like you, i almost did once a while ago but broke it off before it ever started, i regret it now but well....its a long story.
2006-08-16 20:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by rickysol82 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you ask a question like that, you should have a picture posted or a link to one to give people an idea of what you look like. That way they can give you a more informed answer. Good luck.
2006-08-16 20:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes i like strong women but at least in private let the "manly" come out in a guy :)
2006-08-16 20:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by Titanic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. People who allow popular society govern the way that they dress and act are not my type. It's to over the top for me.
2006-08-16 20:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by Palmdog 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only if you are over 18
2006-08-16 20:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋