I've been seeing my g/f now since January. We met online and we hit it off in the beginning. Now, the feeling that I used to have for her is rubbing off and I'm beginning to feel attracted to other women. I've been talking to 3 other women during my relationship with her, but haven't yet met with these 3 other women. Is this considered cheating? I talk about SEX alot with these other women and two of em' has already provided me their cell numbers and the third one has given me her home address. I've talked to the 2 with numbers but haven't made an attempt to visit the one with the address... I want to, but she wants to **** me, and I know I want to **** her too... What should I do? I love my woman, but I guess not whole-heartedly... What to do?
2006-08-16 13:14:12 · 6 answers · asked by Mindscrambler 30 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well there are a lot of ways to chew you up for this one, but I am not. I will say the reason why the love you have for her is rubbing off is because you only loved her from the beginning you were never in love with her, and there is a difference. I say that because you have been talking to these other women not just one woman over the course of you alls relationship, and as a result of that you never gave yourself fully to your girlfriend. It also does not help that you are talking about sex with these other women because I am sure they are probably offering to do things that your current girlfriend don't do. As for you cheating or not you have to ask yourself if it was your girlfriend doing the same thing you are doing what would you call it, and if you would call it just having fun or chatting with some friends then I am guessing that your girlfriend is aware of this activity, and is perfectly fine it (I was being sarcastic with the part about her being fine with it). I am going to ask you to do what most women think, and that is go ahead and have your fun fuc*k from sun up to sun down call the women on the cell phones have phone sex for crying out loud, and last be bold and go visit that women at her house just let your girlfriend go. Come on man stringing her alone, now really is that fair. Has she done anything that bad where she deserves what you are thinking about putting her through, and last while you are out there having your fun just don't get anyone pregnant. That is what women ask hurt me now not later, and don't be so dam*n selfish.
2006-08-16 13:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is something. As far as I can tell, you aren't in "love" with these women. You can't fall in love with someone you don't know. However, if eventually your feelings do become stronger than what you have for your girl, something is wrong.
No, talking to these women is not cheating, but it isn't exactly protecting you and your woman's privacy.
If the feelings do become stronger with someone other than your girlfriend, be honest. Sit down with her and tell her about your friendship, and then gently tell her it's not the same.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-16 13:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by cadence_lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't ready for a committed relationship.
if you were- NO WOMAN on EARTH would even appeal to you.
I'm a very beautiful woman many say, there are even more than I.
Yet, I'm the ONLY WOMAN my husband has eyes or heart for.
We do everything together. We truly are ONE!
If you truly love your lady, forget all others. She may just be your rare and precious jewel.
Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
2006-08-16 13:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while i admit u r good at flirting, try getting out of a relationship before u get into another one. duh of cos it is cheating!! talk to ur girl and confess that she needs to relight the fire in ur relationship and just forget about the other 3 if u wanna stick if ur girl or break up before u make ur next move with them
2006-08-16 13:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the right thing. (you know whats right) if you have to question it...stand back and take a better look at it. And its not fair to her that your having mixed feelings while she's thinking everything is ok...tell her right away and have a serious talk about it!!!!!!
2006-08-16 13:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just another jerk male...
I'll be MOVING ON...not wasting my time here.
Thinking with the p*cker again.
2006-08-16 13:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋