2006-08-16 13:11:57 · 24 answers · asked by myxr750 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...Courting skills and personality. I noticed that because there are so many women that fall inlove with such total losers. Such as my former classmate. He is the dumbest of my classmates but there were 4 girls who liked him. And also, I have this friend who is so ugly but he had a very beautiful girlfriend. It's amazing how we see some men who are almost considered, "worthless" that manages to be heartthrobs. It's like MAGIC! Anyway, other handsome men are being hated by women cause of their rude personality. Others are so talented but are also being hated. That's why when it comes to attraction, personality and courting skills are the best!!!
2006-08-16 13:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way he makes her feel. (or just the way she feels when she is with him)
You can get into all sorts of details about how attraction starts and what a woman wants out of relationships etc, but when you boil it down it's about feelings. This is why jerks have more success than nice guys. It isn't because they are jerks, but because they project confidence and are somewhat interesting. Women would rather have ups and downs in a relationship than a flat-line relationship with a boring 'nice' guy. Nice guys can win, but they have to actually be nice, and not merely falling back on that because in actuality they are downtrodden wimps. If a nice guy is interesting. If he embraces life, is funny etc, then he gets the cake.
People tend to be maleable. If we're around somebody who is feeling a certain way, we tend to end up feeling like that. So, a man who can project confidence, and a love of life, helps a woman feel that way too. And everyone likes to feel like life is a fun adventure.
2006-08-16 20:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by moment_in_passing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SENSE OF HUMOR!!!!! be a gentleman...you can NEVER go wrong doing that. And most implrtantly.....ALL girls...no matter what they look like, what they say or do, we all want to be treated like princess's!!!! Be respectful, considerate, PAY ATTENTION, listen when she talks and respond with something letting her know you that know what she just said and also....when you see eachother for the first time of the day week or whatever....act as though you havnt seen her in years and give her a big hug and kiss and make her the center of the room for the moment!
2006-08-16 20:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks to most women. But I'd rather have a guy who's honest and actually gives a damn about me than a hottie who can't take the time of day to call me. But hotties are still...really hot...
2006-08-16 20:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially, it's physical attraction. However, it's personality and sense of humor that makes a girl stick around. A guy can be super hot, but if his attitude stinks, he is super Not.
2006-08-16 20:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Devil Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me,women arent attracted to men,men are attracted to women,we will just do them the courtesy of being a part of their life if they treat us like a queen,shower us with gifts,hand us over money and give us such pleasure that we scream
2006-08-16 20:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, Lotsa things, hard rock attatude helps, for me, anyway. talk to the girl, E-Mail me, I'll help ya out.
2006-08-16 20:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in order of importance
1money
2 car
3 house
4 expressive eyes
2006-08-16 20:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a genital region the size of the huge wad of cash in your wallet.
2006-08-16 20:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress nice
Smell good
Respectful, caring, honest...
2006-08-16 20:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by Isabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋