How a 19-years old like me can continue living this boring life?

Question

I have a job and i'm studying in best university of my country, has no sex problem, don't expect others to do me favors and i'm somehow kind(as my friends say that,and i don't believe it ,really)
i'm a muslim,but not really. i hear musics,watching best films and reading best books and.... but i still think it's too boring

I only see a few reasonable (but not great) answers here
plz read my details and then answer
i'm not a without job,sex,... i'm talking beyond this moment-funny things

Hey i read your answers and first of all thanks for caring...
but don't think that i'm thinking about suicide or i'm depressed...
everyday i just become more solid , i mean i don't care about anything anymore...and that's hurting me...for example my friends invite me to go out then i remember that nothing is really important to me and then i say i won't come ...this was the simple example of what i want to say...don't think that i'm crying all the day ,no i'm just searching for some kind of aid from you ,happy guys :) ..and plz don't advice me to join another religion or so,as it isn't even important for me...

Answer 1

Heard of the Serenity Prayer?

Live one day at a time!!!

:-)

Answer 2

What you are looking for is the purpose for your existence, I was sort of like you, I had what some may say a great life money coming out of my ma zoo, great job, great family, Friends etc.

But I was still depressed, bored and stressed. Then Jesus came into my life and I did not go looking for him he came looking for me, and since then this is all true, I have been to places that I would never have been able to go or even thought that I could go.

Man I did not know that being a servant could be such a great honorer. I would not change it for anything or anyone, I never want to look back, unless it is to just see how far he has brought me. If he has done that for me he could do the same thing for you. He is a great friend of all those that are burden and heavy laden, it is never to late.

Answer 3

Sounds to me like you are depressed. You might have something physically wrong that is making you feel bad, hopeless and bored. You might have a vitamin deficiency, anemia, or something else.
Healthy, busy people generally have happy lives, so you need to look into that first.
Then look to doing something FOR someone else-read to kids, volunteer at a museum, make jewelry, serve at a homeless shelter.
Maybe you need a reality check that you have a pretty nice life after all, if you see how badly other people live and are happy for the chance.
Hang in there; people do love you. And if you send out love and kindness and generosity and cooperation, it will come back to you. We need more loving and kind people in the world.
PS minister is a nut-wad. You can be a decent, happy, loving person without leaving your religion/or without having a religion.

Answer 4

At 19 you are still in search of yourself and your place in the world. Once you find your calling in life and answer it then you will begin to be fulfilled. Not many 19 year olds know where they are going or what they really want to do. You are still essentially a child from a maturity standpoint and just need to allow yourself to get a better grasp of who you are and why you are here first. Fulfillment in life comes later. May be many years down the road. It may take a life altering experience or you may be lucky enough to reach that stage on your own. Good luck on your journey , my friend! Enjoy your youth while it last. Take in what you can from those around you. Be a people watcher...it's a great way to see where you do not wish to be. Then , by process of elimination, you can better decide where you want to be.

Answer 5

I had the same feeling about my life 4 years ago. The only thing I can tell you is I prayed a sincere prayer to a God I didn't know. I said "God, I'm 30 years old and I've done nothing with my life, and if your real I want to serve you" that's all I said but I really meant it. A few months later God revealed himself to me and since then I've found a purpose and joy to my life I have never known. Hang in there, you'll find your purpose! Then you will have JOY!

Answer 6

Life is full of choices.

Boring life, you know you may have what a great many people want, a boring life. However, occasional excitement is good. but as a whole many people like a steady routine.

I like to watch people, what do i mean? Okay, i find that attempting to ascertain the underlying motives of why a person does what he/she does to be very interesting.

I suggest, evaluate those things in your life that you do, ask why you do it? Here is the trick, don't fool yourself, don't lie to yourself. Be honest with yourself.
For example, why do i like to answer questions on this forum?
I like to voice my opinion, sometimes i like to be abrasive, but, occasionally helping, truly helping is a wonderful feeling.

You are 19, you have a wonderful life ahead of you, you are in university learning, and you will someday contribute to the world in one of three ways, positive, negative or neutral, but you are here and part of it. Enjoy the ride, look at the world with wonder and awe, and always through the eyes of the inquisitive person.

Answer 7

well first of all if you think life is boring than try to spice things up alittle bite like taking or asking out an girl or learing how 2 play the guiter just dont look forward on somthing thats in like a month try 2 look arounr 4 stuff 2 do

Answer 8

I know we all know the feeling which is why we do this talking stuff to alleviate the boredom. Finding a good girlfriend can help you. Then getting married. Families make life worth living. Otherwise I wouldnt care either. Weekends are the best part.

Answer 9

Do something to make it interesting. I know that's easier said than done. But maybe there is things u can do find a hobby, study an interesting course, go some where u can meet people like some sports activity maybe, go out with ur friends. I dunno really. Just think about why u find it boring and see what u can do to change those boring things.

Answer 10

if you want to make life more interesting....

go have sex with an std infested prostitute
or drink every night until you fall asleep in the bathtub
get hooked on drugs so that your family will need to do an intervention
go live on the streets

i'm obviously kidding... from what it sounds, you are on the right path, making the right decision and probably just need to do small things to add some spice to your life. maybe try taking day trips to nearby towns, begin a hobby like photography, join more clubs at your school, do volunteer work, get a cool job at a cool place where you'll meet a lot of people

Answer 11

You are searching....been there. You feel the desire for something more, but not sure what it is, where to look for it or even if you really want to find it. May I suggest that you contact one of the Christian organizations on your campus? Just go volunteer to help them one day. No pressure, just hang out or attend a meeting. It will come. God bless!